Opinion on my relationship Please!, All opinions wanted please. Options

[JonCars17]

I've been in a relationship for a month now and it was going great until a week ago. Therefore I'd like to have everyone's opinion on this. Just put yourself in my position and hers and tell me what you think. I'll give you the facts and try to not leave out anything or to be biast because I want your honest opinion. I will show her the percentage of results to prove that my actions over this is justified because she claims I'm acting like an asshole. We are an hours drive away from eachother and I can't see her everyday because of her schedule with school and her mom because of her age (she is 18 in less than a month) and I'm 23.

Her Facts:
`Her ex-boyfriend still calls her
`He doesn't know about me
`When he calls, it is back to back until she answers
`He wants to get back together with her because he thinks she is single.
`She had a girl tell her that she was gonna beat her up today so she calls her ex wanting advice on how to handle the situation because he has been there before.
`He is violent towards other guys and doesn't want us to fight over her and claims it isn't my choice to tell him but hers and only hers.
`He has shown up to her house in hopes to get back together. They sat for like an hour with her family there.
`He is still number 2 on her myspace page where as I'm number 1. (I don't care about this, just stating).


My facts:
`I have 4 classes with a female friend
`My girlfriend doesn't like her (doesnt know her either)
`Her and I study together sometimes (very rarely) at the college campus' library, but only for a test, which is like everyother week if that, but not every test.
`We don't hang out or anything. (Friend and I)
`If I go to the library at all, she assumes I'm meeting up with the friend
`The friend and I only talk on the phone when she has missed a day of class and needs information on a test.

So far results have been from people I've asked are:
3 dump her (2 girls and 1 guy)

Note:
I made it loud and clear I didn't like him calling her and him not knowing about me long before this post, but now I'm just sick of it.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

I say if you really like her keep with it. My bf and i have been together 2 months and im a very very jealous person and i got on his case about one of his girl friends who has been dating his friend for 3 years but she calls my boyfriend BOYFRIEND NUMBER 2 and im like UHH NO! and they both say its an inside joke and im like thats great but that inside joke didnt happen when i was around so no more of that crap. anyways my point is him and i had a rocky 3 weeks or so but things are perfect now and they got better.

I look at it this way...put up a bit of a fight for another month if you stay together great and if you dont then so what it was only a month or two of your time. ya know what i mean?


I see where shes coming from with the study partner of yours and I see where youre coming from with her ex. you both need to drop these people in ur life if you care enough about eachother.

This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Dec 13, 2006 - 7:55 PM

[JonCars17]

I say if you really like her keep with it. My bf and i have been together 2 months and im a very very jealous person and i got on his case about one of his girl friends who has been dating his friend for 3 years but she calls my boyfriend BOYFRIEND NUMBER 2 and im like UHH NO! and they both say its an inside joke and im like thats great but that inside joke didnt happen when i was around so no more of that crap. anyways my point is him and i had a rocky 3 weeks or so but things are perfect now and they got better.

I look at it this way...put up a bit of a fight for another month if you stay together great and if you dont then so what it was only a month or two of your time. ya know what i mean?


I see where shes coming from with the study partner of yours and I see where youre coming from with her ex. you both need to drop these people in ur life if you care enough about eachother.

She won't drop him. She claims that she doesn't want him to hurt me because he has done it before (not me but someone else). I've already told her to just let him hurt me and that I want him out. It only makes this worse that I can't see her regularly. Oh and we had a argument yesterday so I went to the library to study with my friend because I felt like getting out and talking to someone, which I ended up talking about her the whole time. So she felt like going and seeing her ex. They talked and went out to dinner with her family.

Edited:
I was jealous before now I'm being pushed to be more and more jealous because of all of this ****.

This post has been edited by JonCars17: Dec 13, 2006 - 8:31 PM