 Opinion on my relationship Please!, All opinions wanted please. |
 Dec 13, 2006 - 10:22 AM
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I've been in a relationship for a month now and it was going great until a week ago. Therefore I'd like to have everyone's opinion on this. Just put yourself in my position and hers and tell me what you think. I'll give you the facts and try to not leave out anything or to be biast because I want your honest opinion. I will show her the percentage of results to prove that my actions over this is justified because she claims I'm acting like an asshole. We are an hours drive away from eachother and I can't see her everyday because of her schedule with school and her mom because of her age (she is 18 in less than a month) and I'm 23.
Her Facts: `Her ex-boyfriend still calls her `He doesn't know about me `When he calls, it is back to back until she answers `He wants to get back together with her because he thinks she is single. `She had a girl tell her that she was gonna beat her up today so she calls her ex wanting advice on how to handle the situation because he has been there before. `He is violent towards other guys and doesn't want us to fight over her and claims it isn't my choice to tell him but hers and only hers. `He has shown up to her house in hopes to get back together. They sat for like an hour with her family there. `He is still number 2 on her myspace page where as I'm number 1. (I don't care about this, just stating). My facts: `I have 4 classes with a female friend `My girlfriend doesn't like her (doesnt know her either) `Her and I study together sometimes (very rarely) at the college campus' library, but only for a test, which is like everyother week if that, but not every test. `We don't hang out or anything. (Friend and I) `If I go to the library at all, she assumes I'm meeting up with the friend `The friend and I only talk on the phone when she has missed a day of class and needs information on a test. So far results have been from people I've asked are: 3 dump her (2 girls and 1 guy) Note: I made it loud and clear I didn't like him calling her and him not knowing about me long before this post, but now I'm just sick of it. |
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Dec 14, 2006 - 12:45 AM
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Enthusiast Joined Jan 17, '04 From Illinois Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
read the ladder theory. It explains this, and most other, situation(s) quite well. If you do a search for the word "ladder" in off-topic, you will find a link.
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Dec 14, 2006 - 12:53 AM
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QUOTE(jgreening @ Dec 14, 2006 - 12:45 AM) [snapback]510330[/snapback] read the ladder theory. It explains this, and most other, situation(s) quite well. If you do a search for the word "ladder" in off-topic, you will find a link. http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html -------------------- |
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JonCars17 Opinion on my relationship Please! Dec 13, 2006 - 10:22 AM
dustin15brown honestly think about this: she has a past with him... Dec 13, 2006 - 10:28 AM jayi12-15psi kill the ex bf? Dec 13, 2006 - 11:10 AM Supersprynt Does her myspace say in a relationship? If your #1... Dec 13, 2006 - 11:40 AM celicaandminilover how long has she and the ex been split up? cuz if ... Dec 13, 2006 - 11:47 AM JonCars17 QUOTE(jayi12-15psi @ Dec 13, 2006 ... Dec 13, 2006 - 12:10 PM devilsden97 IMo and personal expierience, your the rebound guy... Dec 13, 2006 - 12:35 PM zachattack15 Here is your problem.
SHe is 17 yrs old. Dec 13, 2006 - 12:48 PM shin ya both needs to lay everything on the table and w... Dec 13, 2006 - 1:14 PM CelicaBuddy I honestly think you should give her the boot...
... Dec 13, 2006 - 1:20 PM My2Celi ^ agreed. go for a girl who isnt troublesome. if t... Dec 13, 2006 - 1:59 PM Supersprynt I'm starting to think what alot of others are ... Dec 13, 2006 - 2:23 PM devilsden97 QUOTE(Supersprynt @ Dec 13, 2006 - 2... Dec 13, 2006 - 3:33 PM Rayme seriously, 18 years old don't know anything a... Dec 13, 2006 - 3:55 PM
CelicaBuddy QUOTE(Rayme @ Dec 13, 2006 - 12:55 P... Dec 13, 2006 - 5:51 PM DomGT Here's my thoughts:
#1 Myspace is retarded, i... Dec 13, 2006 - 4:09 PM JonMarkos QUOTE(zachattack15 @ Dec 13, 2006 - 12... Dec 13, 2006 - 6:59 PM uberschall three words, bro.
not worth it.
tell her this,... Dec 13, 2006 - 7:22 PM LuvinMyCeli I think it boils down to how much drama you want i... Dec 13, 2006 - 7:30 PM JonCars17 Thanks for the comments keep them coming if you li... Dec 13, 2006 - 7:48 PM BlackCelicaGT94 I say if you really like her keep with it. My bf a... Dec 13, 2006 - 7:54 PM JonCars17 QUOTE(BlackCelicaGT94 @ Dec 13, 2006 - 9... Dec 13, 2006 - 8:28 PM BlackCelicaGT94 well if shes not going nto get rid of him or atlea... Dec 13, 2006 - 9:18 PM Jen I agree with Natalie.
BUT. Here's my opinion.... Dec 13, 2006 - 9:31 PM x_itchy_b_x get rich. build a spaceship. pimp out your spacesh... Dec 14, 2006 - 12:48 AM gt_driFFter Ok, I'm starting to notice a bad trend here...... Dec 14, 2006 - 3:06 AM hurley97 QUOTE(gt_driFFter @ Dec 14, 2006 - 3... Dec 14, 2006 - 1:19 PM CelicaBuddy ^ well said!
Its not fair that he has to loo... Dec 14, 2006 - 3:33 AM ExSane Look, the whole point is she should have told her ... Dec 14, 2006 - 3:51 AM JonCars17 QUOTE(ExSane @ Dec 14, 2006 - 5:51 A... Dec 14, 2006 - 6:02 AM sinner96ST From my personal experience :
Girls with ex's... Dec 14, 2006 - 5:06 AM sinner96ST haha, i just found this on the ladder system :
QUO... Dec 14, 2006 - 5:09 AM Glitch001 go after the other girl, when you ask a girl not t... Dec 14, 2006 - 9:05 AM Supersprynt I am disagreeing with alot of what you all are say... Dec 14, 2006 - 9:18 AM Mynzeyes If you are asking for advice on your relationship ... Dec 14, 2006 - 9:20 AM JonCars17 QUOTE(Supersprynt @ Dec 14, 2006 - 9... Dec 14, 2006 - 9:31 AM Negative QUOTE(JonCars17 @ Dec 14, 2006 - 1:2... Dec 14, 2006 - 9:55 AM JonCars17 if you must know, she is the legal age here. So sh... Dec 14, 2006 - 10:04 AM Negative I don't feel stupid at all. As if a lame comme... Dec 14, 2006 - 10:15 AM Mynzeyes QUOTE(Negative @ Dec 14, 2006 - 9:15... Dec 14, 2006 - 10:33 AM Negative QUOTE(Mynzeyes @ Dec 14, 2006 - 3:33... Dec 14, 2006 - 10:51 AM IdiotStick This topic hurts my head. So I say dump her, beca... Dec 14, 2006 - 11:28 AM Supersprynt If she's going out to dinner with her ex and i... Dec 14, 2006 - 11:39 AM BlackCelicaGT94 I dont tell my boyfriend who he can and cant be fr... Dec 14, 2006 - 11:50 AM BlackCelicaGT94 From what i read it doesnt sound like the girl he ... Dec 14, 2006 - 2:52 PM JonCars17 QUOTE(BlackCelicaGT94 @ Dec 14, 2006 - 2... Dec 14, 2006 - 7:01 PM Rjb23 First off what no one in this thread has asked yet... Dec 14, 2006 - 5:34 PM Shocker QUOTE(Rjb23 @ Dec 14, 2006 - 4:34 PM... Jan 3, 2007 - 6:00 AM jason you should date the girl you study with, she is a ... Dec 31, 2006 - 12:40 PM robdrummer Girls just suck money and time away from ur car. p... Jan 3, 2007 - 1:04 AM Supersprynt update? Jan 3, 2007 - 1:57 AM JonCars17 QUOTE(Supersprynt @ Jan 3, 2007 - 1... Jan 3, 2007 - 2:50 PM FreddyTheOthaMeat I voted your both wrong.
for starters at 17 (god m... Jan 3, 2007 - 2:16 AM devilsden97 "call depression because of him losing her an... Jan 3, 2007 - 4:36 PM |
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