Opinion on my relationship Please!, All opinions wanted please. Options

[JonCars17]

I've been in a relationship for a month now and it was going great until a week ago. Therefore I'd like to have everyone's opinion on this. Just put yourself in my position and hers and tell me what you think. I'll give you the facts and try to not leave out anything or to be biast because I want your honest opinion. I will show her the percentage of results to prove that my actions over this is justified because she claims I'm acting like an asshole. We are an hours drive away from eachother and I can't see her everyday because of her schedule with school and her mom because of her age (she is 18 in less than a month) and I'm 23.

Her Facts:
`Her ex-boyfriend still calls her
`He doesn't know about me
`When he calls, it is back to back until she answers
`He wants to get back together with her because he thinks she is single.
`She had a girl tell her that she was gonna beat her up today so she calls her ex wanting advice on how to handle the situation because he has been there before.
`He is violent towards other guys and doesn't want us to fight over her and claims it isn't my choice to tell him but hers and only hers.
`He has shown up to her house in hopes to get back together. They sat for like an hour with her family there.
`He is still number 2 on her myspace page where as I'm number 1. (I don't care about this, just stating).


My facts:
`I have 4 classes with a female friend
`My girlfriend doesn't like her (doesnt know her either)
`Her and I study together sometimes (very rarely) at the college campus' library, but only for a test, which is like everyother week if that, but not every test.
`We don't hang out or anything. (Friend and I)
`If I go to the library at all, she assumes I'm meeting up with the friend
`The friend and I only talk on the phone when she has missed a day of class and needs information on a test.

So far results have been from people I've asked are:
3 dump her (2 girls and 1 guy)

Note:
I made it loud and clear I didn't like him calling her and him not knowing about me long before this post, but now I'm just sick of it.

[ExSane]

Look, the whole point is she should have told her Ex that she has you. Her Ex should learn to respect her's and yours relationship. It's not the case that it's her choice who she wants to be with. The whole point is she already has chosen and it's you so he needs to stfu and back off. He needs to look at the facts which is that you and her are together already in a relationship. He is trying come in between and steal her. Also, she is insecure about the whole college friend thing. Alot of guys like to call that, "B*tch Act'n Stupid." You don't even call your college friend every freakin day like she does with her Ex. She should limit her calls with her Ex not only to NOT disrespect you but her own personal relationship with you as well. I understand that she is being "friends" with her Ex but you have to understand that Ex's don't usually make good friends becuz of everything they been through together he/she still holds onto. But it seems as if she hasn't gotten over her Ex yet and she is only using you as a rebound. And if that's the case, dump her. You don't need that crap. No one does. You ain't no baby sitter. You're better than that.

PS. This is the reason why I mostly go out with women. Not little girls.

This post has been edited by ExSane: Dec 14, 2006 - 3:53 AM

[JonCars17]

Look, the whole point is she should have told her Ex that she has you. Her Ex should learn to respect her's and yours relationship. It's not the case that it's her choice who she wants to be with. The whole point is she already has chosen and it's you so he needs to stfu and back off. He needs to look at the facts which is that you and her are together already in a relationship. He is trying come in between and steal her. Also, she is insecure about the whole college friend thing. Alot of guys like to call that, "B*tch Act'n Stupid." You don't even call your college friend every freakin day like she does with her Ex. She should limit her calls with her Ex not only to NOT disrespect you but her own personal relationship with you as well. I understand that she is being "friends" with her Ex but you have to understand that Ex's don't usually make good friends becuz of everything they been through together he/she still holds onto. But it seems as if she hasn't gotten over her Ex yet and she is only using you as a rebound. And if that's the case, dump her. You don't need that crap. No one does. You ain't no baby sitter. You're better than that.

PS. This is the reason why I mostly go out with women. Not little girls.

She doesn't call him everyday. Only that once as far as I know. He calls her because he still loves her. I don't even call my friend unless I need class information. She calls me when she needs class information and only when she needs class information.

This post has been edited by JonCars17: Dec 14, 2006 - 6:16 AM