Opinion on my relationship Please!, All opinions wanted please. Options

[JonCars17]

I've been in a relationship for a month now and it was going great until a week ago. Therefore I'd like to have everyone's opinion on this. Just put yourself in my position and hers and tell me what you think. I'll give you the facts and try to not leave out anything or to be biast because I want your honest opinion. I will show her the percentage of results to prove that my actions over this is justified because she claims I'm acting like an asshole. We are an hours drive away from eachother and I can't see her everyday because of her schedule with school and her mom because of her age (she is 18 in less than a month) and I'm 23.

Her Facts:
`Her ex-boyfriend still calls her
`He doesn't know about me
`When he calls, it is back to back until she answers
`He wants to get back together with her because he thinks she is single.
`She had a girl tell her that she was gonna beat her up today so she calls her ex wanting advice on how to handle the situation because he has been there before.
`He is violent towards other guys and doesn't want us to fight over her and claims it isn't my choice to tell him but hers and only hers.
`He has shown up to her house in hopes to get back together. They sat for like an hour with her family there.
`He is still number 2 on her myspace page where as I'm number 1. (I don't care about this, just stating).


My facts:
`I have 4 classes with a female friend
`My girlfriend doesn't like her (doesnt know her either)
`Her and I study together sometimes (very rarely) at the college campus' library, but only for a test, which is like everyother week if that, but not every test.
`We don't hang out or anything. (Friend and I)
`If I go to the library at all, she assumes I'm meeting up with the friend
`The friend and I only talk on the phone when she has missed a day of class and needs information on a test.

So far results have been from people I've asked are:
3 dump her (2 girls and 1 guy)

Note:
I made it loud and clear I didn't like him calling her and him not knowing about me long before this post, but now I'm just sick of it.

[Glitch001]

go after the other girl, when you ask a girl not to do something they will. its a defiance who knows, let her ruin a good thing. better than being cheated on by a dumb whore in my opinion. (not calling you or her a dumb whore, just those who cheat) so wary of advice from certain people, as they have cheated and manipulated people in the past. My advice, dump her, women are a dime a dozen dude, why stress over drama shes offering. If you said i dont like this, and she keeps doing it, she wouldnt do it. Its because she cant let go and is weak and sooner or later in a time of remorse when maybe your not around, she'll run to him.

After people have sex you really cant have a relationship that can lower itself down, so if she slept with this ex, you can bet thats what he wants back and she is looking to reestablish her feelings without the work. Easy trade off, just makes her a whore if she does that. Just ask some girls you know (or from this site) if they have ever cheated, it will kinda sicken you in their reasoning. but ya..

Short answer: dump her, its better than being cheated on.