Opinion on my relationship Please!, All opinions wanted please. Options

[JonCars17]

I've been in a relationship for a month now and it was going great until a week ago. Therefore I'd like to have everyone's opinion on this. Just put yourself in my position and hers and tell me what you think. I'll give you the facts and try to not leave out anything or to be biast because I want your honest opinion. I will show her the percentage of results to prove that my actions over this is justified because she claims I'm acting like an asshole. We are an hours drive away from eachother and I can't see her everyday because of her schedule with school and her mom because of her age (she is 18 in less than a month) and I'm 23.

Her Facts:
`Her ex-boyfriend still calls her
`He doesn't know about me
`When he calls, it is back to back until she answers
`He wants to get back together with her because he thinks she is single.
`She had a girl tell her that she was gonna beat her up today so she calls her ex wanting advice on how to handle the situation because he has been there before.
`He is violent towards other guys and doesn't want us to fight over her and claims it isn't my choice to tell him but hers and only hers.
`He has shown up to her house in hopes to get back together. They sat for like an hour with her family there.
`He is still number 2 on her myspace page where as I'm number 1. (I don't care about this, just stating).


My facts:
`I have 4 classes with a female friend
`My girlfriend doesn't like her (doesnt know her either)
`Her and I study together sometimes (very rarely) at the college campus' library, but only for a test, which is like everyother week if that, but not every test.
`We don't hang out or anything. (Friend and I)
`If I go to the library at all, she assumes I'm meeting up with the friend
`The friend and I only talk on the phone when she has missed a day of class and needs information on a test.

So far results have been from people I've asked are:
3 dump her (2 girls and 1 guy)

Note:
I made it loud and clear I didn't like him calling her and him not knowing about me long before this post, but now I'm just sick of it.

[Supersprynt]

update?

[JonCars17]

update?

Yeah we broke up. We are gonna going out sometime this weekend and talk about everything and see where it goes. The way it seems is we both still have feelings for eachother and I'm waiting to give it another shot. The trust thing has been delt with and I understand most of the things she does and why now. I think the break up was the best decision we both could have made for the relationship, but whether it works out or not, we'll just have to see. If we do break up again then I doubt I will give it another shot and will just move on.

As for her ex-bf, I'm not worried about him anymore. He is currently going through what most would call depression because of him losing her and he has mentioned killing himself because of it. I know this from his myspace page. This is probably why she believes he would hurt me if he found out about me (name wise and all). He does know she is seeing someone just not who and she isn't the one that told him. (No I didn't either).

As for the other girl, she isn't an option and never was. I've already tried to get with her before and she doesn't see me as a bf or anywhere in the ballpark. Hell she won't even hang out with me. I asked if she wanted to hangout at a movie this past weekend (I'm single) and all I got out of her was a I donno which never became a no or a yes. Besides I stopped looking at her as anything other than a friend because of this long before I even met the girl I'm seeing (now ex til we go out).

As for this post, I just wanted to see if I was alone in how I felt about this situation. I never wanted adivce on how to deal with it or anything, which is why I wanted everyone to just tell me what they would feel towards all of this. This is why I was asking for opinions and not advice.

I personally dont care about age aslong as they are of age and are atleast 6 or 5 younger than me max because of my parents. I did not go looking for her, she came looking for me. She gave me her number without me even asking for it. We would have seen eachother this past weekend but her mom was being a butt and she had family down from alabama.