well, im kinda freakin out/pissed off Options

[Valo666]

So, back in Sept, i moved down here to Windsor for school and when I did, i left my friends, family, and gf back home in Toronto. Any ways, its been pretty hard for me having my gf livin like 3 and a half hours away. Any ways, lately shes been hangin out with her best friend more. So shes been going out with her best friend Tyler (female, dont ask), her bf Josh and this guy that they are friends with Mikey. So this Mikey guy since the first time they met has been hittin on her. First thing he ever said to her was "so are you single?" Since then when ever they r hangin out the guy asks for hugs, tryed to put his arm around her as much as possible. But she always pushes him away and every thing, but apparently this guy gets obsest with girls alot. Like apparently this guy was obsest with his ex gf for like a year to the point where she had to get a TRO for him. So im kinda concerned about that. But also to add to that, some new guy started at her work and has been hittin on her since day 1 aswell. Like she told him we are goin out, told him we have been goin out for a long time, told him shes movin down here in the summer, but this guy doesnt seem to care. He hits on her constantly, tries to flirt with her constantly, etc. And like i mean its ok if he just flirts maybe once or twice b4 he gets the point that shes already taken/not interested, but this guy doesnt stop. She told me that all of her co-workers say he does it with all of them, but she has never seen or heard it. Also the other day as she was leaving he yelled out to her as he was walkin out the door "So you know im gonna be here waiting for you when your fiance(even though we arent engaged) dumps you." This guy has never met me b4, doesnt know any thing about me and then tells my girl friend of over 2 years that hes gonna b waiting for her when i dump her. So im kinda pissed off because i have to hear about this from 3 and a half hours away, and im pissed for the obvious reason that i dont like the idea of 2 sketchy guys hittin on my girlfriend. And im kinda freaking out about this Mikey guy and how he gets so obsest with people to the point where ppl need to take out TROs on him.

Any ideas of what i should do? Im gonna b back in toronto next week for a week, so im thinkin of just meetin these guys and tellin them to f*ck off. But i dunno..any ideas?

[Valo666]

First: its obsessed.

Second: This day & age you cant just fight for a girl. You'll get arrested. These guys dont care about your relationship, they want to get with your girl. Its nothing personal, its called a majority of the male population.

Third: How does she feel about this other guy Mikey? Perhaps encourage her to tell her best friend & her b/f that she doesnt want to hang out with Mikey around. Maybe you should express your concerns to her and see what type of action your g/f wants to take with her best friend.

Fourth: Guys hit on your g/f all the time. Everyday, from all angles. You dont hear about all of it because you dont have to. You just gotta understand that.

First: I have a learning disability and can spell at like a 8th grade level at best.

Second: I dont plan on fighting, im not stupid or violent. And i know the want to get with my girl friend hense why im pissed.

Third: This mikey guy she doesnt like at all. She has told her best friend that she doesnt wanna hang out with this guy, but as of right now her best friend doesnt have a car, so my girl friend has to pick her up all the time. This mikey guy is living with them right now, so when she goes to pick her up, hes there and then he pretty much invites him self to come with.

And Fourth: I know guys hit on girls all the time, and i know i dont hear about it all the time, but how would you feel if you were in my position? Your girl friend lives almost 4 hours away, you have to random guys fighting for your girl friend, your girl friend isnt 100% sure if she wants to move in with you next year, you have a guy whos gone to the point of pretty much criminal stalking against hi ex, and you got some other guy whos telling your girl friend that your gonna dump her sometime.

Honestly...by telling me that guys hit on girls all the time and by telling me somethin thats basic knowledge that even an 8 year old would know, like that i can get arrested for fighting some one.

thanks for the help