Turn offs Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

What are your turn offs with the opposite sex?


Heres mine

Bad Teeth
when they cant read my mind or take hints :-P

[yarik83]

ok ok let me explain myself.

When a girl is getting into a relationship she assumes the fact that whoever she is committing to is priviledged with her presence. In many cases that is true.. in many cases it is not. In either case its built into female genes to do the following: be family oriented. You do not care about sex in ways men do, you do not care for things you find irrational from your perspective, you also do not look at a relationship from a guy perspective.

When a guy commits to a relationship he has one thing on his mind. Unless he is suffering from an illness, unless he is deformed, unless he is mentally retarded VERY first thing he expects is SEX. Yes that pesky little thing that satisfies his desire. He could be skinny, fat, greedy, generous, rich, poor and regardless of the race every self respecting male wants sex. When we get into a relationship thats a thing that we expect. We expect it now and preferably every day at 11 in the morning, 9 at night and then some in between on a lunch break. We do not want to marry a chick because one day we wake up and go ooooo oooo I want to marry her. We marry a chick because if we dont she will get all pissy and make a scene and everyone on her mothers side will hate you. And when we do propose first thing you do is stick your hand out to all your lady friends and advertise how much money your man spent on that ring. You shine ear to ear, have a honey moon then after 4.5 years into marriage it hits you that you married a guy just to be in a relationship and 4.5 years into a relationship your guy starts checking out other girls involuntarily.

So when I am saying that I have expectations I expect that If I provide my lady with a pretty good financial backup, pay her bills, help out her parents, buy a house, buy cars, pay for kids education and yada yada yada I would love to come home and pew pew the living brains out of my wife. Yes women are people too but in many cases (not all) your wife is not a doctor or a lawyer or a financial investor or a celebrity.. instead there are kids, childbirth, pregnancy, raising kids, kindergarden, after school, families over, trips to places among other things that generally imply that majority of income in a relationship comes from the guy's side.

Have I been married? No. Do I plan to have kids and get married? yes.

Have I had girlfriends? Yes on and off.. every kind from a book smart to a bisexual and it was always one of the following:
-perfect girl, smart beautiful, little sex
-so so girl, silly and pissing you off... lots of sex
-down the middle chickie chickie.... you are not in a relationship with her.. you are in a relationship with her mother and everyone else she talks to because her decisions are not of her own.

So please tell me how can I not be bitter when time after time after time and not just me but many people I know.. a relationship is like running on the tippy toes on a long razor blade. To the left is a lake with poo to the right is a lake with lava.. and blade hurts your feet along the way.. so no matter where you go from there its always grrr grrrrr grrrrr