 BUNCH OF BS, Need someone to talk to...... |
 Sep 4, 2007 - 2:41 PM
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I really need someone to talk to right now. I've been dating my g/f for 3 1/2 years. And I just found out that she has feelings for someone else. She says that she doesn't know what she wants right now. And doesn't know if she wants me or this other person. I have no idea what to do. I love her so much, and she means everything to me. She also says that she still cares for me and still loves me. But doesn't know what to do. what should i do? And what does everyone else think about this situation?
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Sep 4, 2007 - 2:46 PM
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give her time, dont pressure her, if you let her go and she comes back then shes yours. if not then realize life is long and you have plenty of time to deal with girls later. something like that.
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Sep 4, 2007 - 3:00 PM
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QUOTE(x_itchy_b_x @ Sep 4, 2007 - 8:46 PM) [snapback]593273[/snapback] give her time, dont pressure her, if you let her go and she comes back then shes yours. if not then realize life is long and you have plenty of time to deal with girls later. something like that. ^^^ good advice, imo you need a break. If it's meant to be she'll realize and come back, and that way you will know for sure that she wants you. Otherwise you will always be wondering. sometimes people think the grass is greener elsewhere, but soon find that it isn't. -------------------- |
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Sep 4, 2007 - 3:50 PM
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QUOTE(manphibian @ Sep 4, 2007 - 8:00 PM) [snapback]593275[/snapback] QUOTE(x_itchy_b_x @ Sep 4, 2007 - 8:46 PM) [snapback]593273[/snapback] give her time, dont pressure her, if you let her go and she comes back then shes yours. if not then realize life is long and you have plenty of time to deal with girls later. something like that. ^^^ good advice, imo you need a break. If it's meant to be she'll realize and come back, and that way you will know for sure that she wants you. Otherwise you will always be wondering. sometimes people think the grass is greener elsewhere, but soon find that it isn't. i would hate that. having to think about the girl you spend the majority of your time thinking about, being with someone else is too much to bear. If my girlfriend told me she had feelings for someone else, I would have to give her the boot though. Be glad she told you outright. --- In response to itchy, I think hes right about the no pressure bit, but as far as giving her time, I think that is wrong. 3.5 years is a LONG time, but there are 1002314702173817239816049619823961312312 more women out there. Many probably will make you happier than her. -------------------- |
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celiracer BUNCH OF BS Sep 4, 2007 - 2:41 PM
FoREpLayAX My rule of thumb my entire life, never be a choice... Sep 4, 2007 - 2:45 PM fastgt If my gf told me that after our 5 years together, ... Sep 4, 2007 - 3:09 PM axelrduvirage how old are you?
15-18...walk away
18-21...ask he... Sep 4, 2007 - 4:30 PM
m0dd3d1 QUOTE(axelrduvirage @ Sep 4, 2007 - 4... Sep 4, 2007 - 7:07 PM Jlacker3 All good advice...but I think you should walk away... Sep 4, 2007 - 5:04 PM xs94st if she has feelings for someone else..IMHO give he... Sep 4, 2007 - 7:40 PM Blakout16 its okay, just tell yourself she's the older m... Sep 4, 2007 - 7:47 PM FreddyTheOthaMeat Id split, if she really loved you then another guy... Sep 4, 2007 - 7:58 PM giang723 just have some quiet time to yourself and have a t... Sep 4, 2007 - 10:05 PM zachattack15 Reading this brings back bad memories! Sep 4, 2007 - 10:46 PM CelicaST_CALI ya y dont u drive ur car to his house... Sep 4, 2007 - 10:47 PM yarik83 just an fyi and because i have bloodshot eyes im n... Sep 5, 2007 - 5:35 AM JoKeRkId613 QUOTE(yarik83 @ Sep 5, 2007 - 3:35 A... Sep 5, 2007 - 12:13 PM 97Celica more importantly...how old is SHE? Girls under the... Sep 5, 2007 - 6:25 AM ThePettingFairy QUOTE(97Celica @ Sep 5, 2007 - 6:25 ... Sep 5, 2007 - 4:34 PM BlackCelicaGT94 QUOTE(yarik83 @ Sep 5, 2007 - 3:35 A... Sep 5, 2007 - 10:50 AM x_itchy_b_x i wouldn't jump to conclusions, that can cause... Sep 5, 2007 - 12:19 PM lubu All good advices. But you gotta understand somethi... Sep 5, 2007 - 12:26 PM yarik83 Ok now that I came from work and my eyes are not b... Sep 5, 2007 - 4:35 PM ILuvMyCelica95 I'd have to agree with lubu in some of his poi... Sep 5, 2007 - 5:42 PM Culpable04 QUOTE(ILuvMyCelica95 @ Sep 5, 2007 - 5... Sep 5, 2007 - 5:57 PM lubu Just a reminder to all of us. I dunno whats ppl po... Sep 5, 2007 - 6:42 PM CelicaBuddy Honestly... I'd just end it, it will save you ... Sep 5, 2007 - 7:10 PM slvr_celica_GT_816 sorry to hear that ive been with my g/f for 3 1/2 ... Sep 5, 2007 - 8:47 PM giang723 QUOTE(CelicaST_CALI @ Sep 4, 2007 - 10... Sep 6, 2007 - 3:59 AM 97Celica Thepettingfairy, you may have a head on your shoul... Sep 16, 2007 - 8:09 AM |
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