 BUNCH OF BS, Need someone to talk to...... |
 Sep 4, 2007 - 2:41 PM
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I really need someone to talk to right now. I've been dating my g/f for 3 1/2 years. And I just found out that she has feelings for someone else. She says that she doesn't know what she wants right now. And doesn't know if she wants me or this other person. I have no idea what to do. I love her so much, and she means everything to me. She also says that she still cares for me and still loves me. But doesn't know what to do. what should i do? And what does everyone else think about this situation?
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Sep 4, 2007 - 4:30 PM
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how old are you?
15-18...walk away 18-21...ask her what she wants of you 21-25...walk away 25+...ask her what she wants of you, then walk away laughing relationships are meant to be tried and swapped and retried. --------------------  |
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Sep 4, 2007 - 7:07 PM
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QUOTE(axelrduvirage @ Sep 4, 2007 - 4:30 PM) [snapback]593300[/snapback] how old are you? 15-18...walk away 18-21...ask her what she wants of you 21-25...walk away 25+...ask her what she wants of you, then walk away laughing relationships are meant to be tried and swapped and retried. Harsh. Dude, you've been with her for 3 1/2 years, that's a long time. People get bored with each other and they want something new and exciting. If she's thinking about someone else, then she just wants something new. If you guys go on a break or split, she'll go find that something new, and then come back to what feels comfortable. You. That's my experience. Also my experience: you'll probably not be there to pick her back up again, but don't worry, it's not your fault. At that point you can say: F-her. She pretty much boned herself, b/c now you can't really trust her after this b/c you'll never know if there is someone else, even when she says there's not. This post has been edited by m0dd3d1: Sep 4, 2007 - 7:08 PM -------------------- 2007 Subaru Impreza WRX STi 1974 Datsun 260Z 1997 Subaru Legacy L Wagon Kind of missin' my Celica GT! Hit me up if you're ever in my area. I'm always down for a meet. |
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celiracer BUNCH OF BS Sep 4, 2007 - 2:41 PM
FoREpLayAX My rule of thumb my entire life, never be a choice... Sep 4, 2007 - 2:45 PM x_itchy_b_x give her time, dont pressure her, if you let her g... Sep 4, 2007 - 2:46 PM
manphibian QUOTE(x_itchy_b_x @ Sep 4, 2007 - 8... Sep 4, 2007 - 3:00 PM cHinaman727 QUOTE(manphibian @ Sep 4, 2007 - 8:0... Sep 4, 2007 - 3:50 PM fastgt If my gf told me that after our 5 years together, ... Sep 4, 2007 - 3:09 PM Jlacker3 All good advice...but I think you should walk away... Sep 4, 2007 - 5:04 PM xs94st if she has feelings for someone else..IMHO give he... Sep 4, 2007 - 7:40 PM Blakout16 its okay, just tell yourself she's the older m... Sep 4, 2007 - 7:47 PM FreddyTheOthaMeat Id split, if she really loved you then another guy... Sep 4, 2007 - 7:58 PM giang723 just have some quiet time to yourself and have a t... Sep 4, 2007 - 10:05 PM zachattack15 Reading this brings back bad memories! Sep 4, 2007 - 10:46 PM CelicaST_CALI ya y dont u drive ur car to his house... Sep 4, 2007 - 10:47 PM yarik83 just an fyi and because i have bloodshot eyes im n... Sep 5, 2007 - 5:35 AM JoKeRkId613 QUOTE(yarik83 @ Sep 5, 2007 - 3:35 A... Sep 5, 2007 - 12:13 PM 97Celica more importantly...how old is SHE? Girls under the... Sep 5, 2007 - 6:25 AM ThePettingFairy QUOTE(97Celica @ Sep 5, 2007 - 6:25 ... Sep 5, 2007 - 4:34 PM BlackCelicaGT94 QUOTE(yarik83 @ Sep 5, 2007 - 3:35 A... Sep 5, 2007 - 10:50 AM x_itchy_b_x i wouldn't jump to conclusions, that can cause... Sep 5, 2007 - 12:19 PM lubu All good advices. But you gotta understand somethi... Sep 5, 2007 - 12:26 PM yarik83 Ok now that I came from work and my eyes are not b... Sep 5, 2007 - 4:35 PM ILuvMyCelica95 I'd have to agree with lubu in some of his poi... Sep 5, 2007 - 5:42 PM Culpable04 QUOTE(ILuvMyCelica95 @ Sep 5, 2007 - 5... Sep 5, 2007 - 5:57 PM lubu Just a reminder to all of us. I dunno whats ppl po... Sep 5, 2007 - 6:42 PM CelicaBuddy Honestly... I'd just end it, it will save you ... Sep 5, 2007 - 7:10 PM slvr_celica_GT_816 sorry to hear that ive been with my g/f for 3 1/2 ... Sep 5, 2007 - 8:47 PM giang723 QUOTE(CelicaST_CALI @ Sep 4, 2007 - 10... Sep 6, 2007 - 3:59 AM 97Celica Thepettingfairy, you may have a head on your shoul... Sep 16, 2007 - 8:09 AM |
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