BUNCH OF BS, Need someone to talk to...... Options

[celiracer]

I really need someone to talk to right now. I've been dating my g/f for 3 1/2 years. And I just found out that she has feelings for someone else. She says that she doesn't know what she wants right now. And doesn't know if she wants me or this other person. I have no idea what to do. I love her so much, and she means everything to me. She also says that she still cares for me and still loves me. But doesn't know what to do. what should i do? And what does everyone else think about this situation?

[ILuvMyCelica95]

I'd have to agree with lubu in some of his points. Maybe you did do something and are unaware of it?

Of course people don't just have feelings for someone out of the blue but i also think it's a pretty big assumption to say that shes sleeping with someone else.

3 1/2 years is a very long time, I think you should talk to her and since she was so honest maybe she'll tell you why she has feelings for this other person and did you do something or perhaps not do something to cause this to happen. Then you can figure out if you should move on or if it's worth working on.