 BUNCH OF BS, Need someone to talk to...... |
 Sep 4, 2007 - 2:41 PM
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I really need someone to talk to right now. I've been dating my g/f for 3 1/2 years. And I just found out that she has feelings for someone else. She says that she doesn't know what she wants right now. And doesn't know if she wants me or this other person. I have no idea what to do. I love her so much, and she means everything to me. She also says that she still cares for me and still loves me. But doesn't know what to do. what should i do? And what does everyone else think about this situation?
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Sep 5, 2007 - 7:10 PM
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Honestly... I'd just end it, it will save you from more potential hurt later down the road. Like a lot of people were saying, if she REALLY loved you, she wouldn't be questioning your relationship together. If its meant to be, then its meant to be...
That's what I should have done a long time ago with the ex bf, when he said basically the same things your girl is saying now... From past experience trying to hold the relationship together and make it work after something like that just back fired in my face horribly... Turns out he just ended up cheating on me anyway  Not saying your girl is doing the same... but thats what happened to me... 3 1/2 years is a long time, she may just be taking your relationship for granted and not realizing how good she may have it. Its a common thing that happens in a long relationship... Once you dont have the person anymore, you truly appreciate them and everything they did for you... maybe give it a break... though technically I dont really believe in breaks...  good luck This post has been edited by CelicaBuddy: Sep 5, 2007 - 7:14 PM --------------------  2003 Nissan Murano SE |
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celiracer BUNCH OF BS Sep 4, 2007 - 2:41 PM
FoREpLayAX My rule of thumb my entire life, never be a choice... Sep 4, 2007 - 2:45 PM x_itchy_b_x give her time, dont pressure her, if you let her g... Sep 4, 2007 - 2:46 PM
manphibian QUOTE(x_itchy_b_x @ Sep 4, 2007 - 8... Sep 4, 2007 - 3:00 PM cHinaman727 QUOTE(manphibian @ Sep 4, 2007 - 8:0... Sep 4, 2007 - 3:50 PM fastgt If my gf told me that after our 5 years together, ... Sep 4, 2007 - 3:09 PM axelrduvirage how old are you?
15-18...walk away
18-21...ask he... Sep 4, 2007 - 4:30 PM m0dd3d1 QUOTE(axelrduvirage @ Sep 4, 2007 - 4... Sep 4, 2007 - 7:07 PM Jlacker3 All good advice...but I think you should walk away... Sep 4, 2007 - 5:04 PM xs94st if she has feelings for someone else..IMHO give he... Sep 4, 2007 - 7:40 PM Blakout16 its okay, just tell yourself she's the older m... Sep 4, 2007 - 7:47 PM FreddyTheOthaMeat Id split, if she really loved you then another guy... Sep 4, 2007 - 7:58 PM giang723 just have some quiet time to yourself and have a t... Sep 4, 2007 - 10:05 PM zachattack15 Reading this brings back bad memories! Sep 4, 2007 - 10:46 PM CelicaST_CALI ya y dont u drive ur car to his house... Sep 4, 2007 - 10:47 PM yarik83 just an fyi and because i have bloodshot eyes im n... Sep 5, 2007 - 5:35 AM JoKeRkId613 QUOTE(yarik83 @ Sep 5, 2007 - 3:35 A... Sep 5, 2007 - 12:13 PM 97Celica more importantly...how old is SHE? Girls under the... Sep 5, 2007 - 6:25 AM ThePettingFairy QUOTE(97Celica @ Sep 5, 2007 - 6:25 ... Sep 5, 2007 - 4:34 PM BlackCelicaGT94 QUOTE(yarik83 @ Sep 5, 2007 - 3:35 A... Sep 5, 2007 - 10:50 AM x_itchy_b_x i wouldn't jump to conclusions, that can cause... Sep 5, 2007 - 12:19 PM lubu All good advices. But you gotta understand somethi... Sep 5, 2007 - 12:26 PM yarik83 Ok now that I came from work and my eyes are not b... Sep 5, 2007 - 4:35 PM ILuvMyCelica95 I'd have to agree with lubu in some of his poi... Sep 5, 2007 - 5:42 PM Culpable04 QUOTE(ILuvMyCelica95 @ Sep 5, 2007 - 5... Sep 5, 2007 - 5:57 PM lubu Just a reminder to all of us. I dunno whats ppl po... Sep 5, 2007 - 6:42 PM slvr_celica_GT_816 sorry to hear that ive been with my g/f for 3 1/2 ... Sep 5, 2007 - 8:47 PM giang723 QUOTE(CelicaST_CALI @ Sep 4, 2007 - 10... Sep 6, 2007 - 3:59 AM 97Celica Thepettingfairy, you may have a head on your shoul... Sep 16, 2007 - 8:09 AM |
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