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[cHinaman727]

My girlfriend is 19, and working full-time to pay for her car. To get this car, she had to use her dad's credit and he cosigned. If she moves out, they will take her car, yet she has been the one making payments on her car, even working so much that she is getting very few college hours in.

How can my girlfriend move out and KEEP her car? I am not too clear but I think she has been giving her dad her paychecks and he has made the payments using her paychecks or something like that. So to the bank, it looks like he is the one paying.

If she moves out, they keep the car, yet her mom just demanded that she moves out or START PAYING RENT. Yeah, thats what I thought. Her parents are telling her that if she moves out, they will keep her car, and if she stays there, she has to start paying rent, ALONG with paying for her car, for THEIR groceries, and doing all the work around the house..

HELP PLEASE!

[MaskedMan]

Ok as I exspected. Well here's the thing, she needs to figure out what's the most important for her. If she wants freedom, it's right there, but sacrifices need to be made. Yeah it's tough, but that's the way life is. There are tough parts of it, and there are easy parts. Growing up is tough, because it's when you realize your not a kid anymore and you need to learn to balance life. Different people have different privlages and opportunities handed to them. There are kids out there that are forced into the same situation, except they don't have a car at all, and might not have someone like you to help them through it. So can't you just be glad you have each other?