Question to all guys here at 6gc, about girls................... Options

[joehernandez]

I know most of the 6gc members are men,
well, i wanted to ask you,
there is this girl i like, and she likes me too, but for some reasons we can't still be together..
the question is,
would you guys let her dance freak with your friends?
even if you are not boyfriend to her?
what about the ones that are in a relationship, would you let her?

i am asking cuz it really sucked for me, and i really want to tell her about that it make me really mad
going to the club and seen her dancing with me and two of my friend freak,.......
need opinions!!

[joehernandez]

lol

a) you arn't dating so you can't tell her what to do so deal with it
b) even if you were dating, good luck trying to tell her what to do
c) I let my last GF dance with my friends its not a big deal.

yeah,, thats the big deal!
i think she sill be mad and will tell me the same thing!
"we are not dating"......................................

Dude, If you want my advice, I'll tell you what not to do. (because as for what to do, I have yet to figure it out)

if you catch her in a hot-tub with one of your best friends, DO NOT jump the fence and try to drown him. She'll end up taking his side and get inbetween you and him ready to box with you
DO NOT be an over obsessive psychopathic stalker. It never leads to anything good.
DO NOT go out with your own friends and get drunk when she says never wants to see you again, as she will drive around all night looking for you and run up on your a- at the concert and start a fist fight.
DO NOT do anything
DO NOT do nothing
DO NOT become perfect and do whatever she wants
DO NOT become an ass and do everthing she dosn't want.
when she tells you to go get a new chick and maybe she'd be jealous, DO NOT assume that dating a lesbian (who has the same motives as you, but with her girlfriend) is going to work. Even though it's the only way to avoid future problems by NOT having slept with the person, as it's impossible. It dont work for some reason

I believe there is some whay to do that whole "win her back" thing, But I just dont know how to do it. W/E; in the end, all i know is that their are more chicks out there that are almost as good....Almost

...Damn, i'm sad now...

whats this "freak" is it like dirty dancing? she might be trying to get a reaction out of you to test how much you do like her.

It's that freaking, "rub your butt and boobs all over my happy place" kind of dancing. People are (supposedly) known "Accomplish their goals" right there on the dance floor from time to time. (unfortunately i wouldn't know as i don't know how to grind like that, nor do i dance much at all anymore ) Raver not a Rapper

wooow you really got me thinking right here!

lol

a) you arn't dating so you can't tell her what to do so deal with it
b) even if you were dating, good luck trying to tell her what to do
c) I let my last GF dance with my friends its not a big deal.

x2

Oh ok...sounds like she is playing with ya. They do that....im sure not all girls do but yea a lot do.
Actually honestly I wouldn't have a clue what to do.
It sounds like its very complicated. My best guess would be to tell her.

i really dont think she is like that,
it would be really f***ed up,,,,,,,,,
i guess thats the best thing to do

Either "A" - yes she is like that [And never put anything past a woman - this is pretty mild compared to some things I've seen women do to make a man jealous or like them more - they are ALL pretty fcuked up you know] or "B" she has no interest in you. Not a problem either way - just try to figure out which and deal appropriately

Dude, If you want my advice, I'll tell you what not to do. (because as for what to do, I have yet to figure it out)
if you catch her in a hot-tub with one of your best friends, DO NOT jump the fence and try to drown him. She'll end up taking his side and get inbetween you and him ready to box with you
DO NOT be an over obsessive psychopathic stalker. It never leads to anything good.
DO NOT go out with your own friends and get drunk when she says never wants to see you again, as she will drive around all night looking for you and run up on your a- at the concert and start a fist fight.
DO NOT do anything
DO NOT do nothing
DO NOT become perfect and do whatever she wants
DO NOT become an ass and do everthing she dosn't want.
when she tells you to go get a new chick and maybe she'd be jealous, DO NOT assume that dating a lesbian (who has the same motives as you, but with her girlfriend) is going to work. Even though it's the only way to avoid future problems by NOT having slept with the person, as it's impossible. It dont work for some reason
I believe there is some whay to do that whole "win her back" thing, But I just dont know how to do it. W/E; in the end, all i know is that their are more chicks out there that are almost as good....Almost
...Damn, i'm sad now...

whats this "freak" is it like dirty dancing? she might be trying to get a reaction out of you to test how much you do like her.

It's that freaking, "rub your butt and boobs all over my happy place" kind of dancing. People are (supposedly) known "Accomplish their goals" right there on the dance floor from time to time. (unfortunately i wouldn't know as i don't know how to grind like that, nor do i dance much at all anymore ) Raver not a Rapper

This post will haunt me for the rest of my life.


My advice - You are already too hung up on this girl to have a successful relationship [Unless you prefer being submissive and then I can see it working - maybe] and you are not even dating yet. Get the hell away. It's never healthy to be that hung up on a chick. Go out and find one who is that hung up YOU, let her massage your wounded ego and get your needs taken care of - you'll soon forget all about this other one.

Ok heres the thing,,,,,
she is my boss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
she is the assistant manager and i am the third key!
i think that changed the story a little bit hehehehehe