Question to all guys here at 6gc, about girls................... Options

[joehernandez]

I know most of the 6gc members are men,
well, i wanted to ask you,
there is this girl i like, and she likes me too, but for some reasons we can't still be together..
the question is,
would you guys let her dance freak with your friends?
even if you are not boyfriend to her?
what about the ones that are in a relationship, would you let her?

i am asking cuz it really sucked for me, and i really want to tell her about that it make me really mad
going to the club and seen her dancing with me and two of my friend freak,.......
need opinions!!

[joehernandez]

No Matt, that is his problem, he's not a total testosterone driven ass like some guys i know

J/K w/ ya

But for real, that'll be the hardest part; but ultimately the wisest decision. And i have to agree with not having relations with co-workers. Seriously, even working in a quizno's, there are security cameras, and a pervert for a boss who makes copys of the tape to show his other store at the christmas party when you're supposed to be dating a chick there, but then the.... nevermind...


EDIT: Matt, that's the quizno's by your house next to the walmart shoping center. Chris Johnson is the owner, and I was the assistant of that one and the one on 34th near that CONS and GoodWill. There was a Danielle Ramey at one store, then a Kristina Lang at another. I hope you like your mayo

no hehehe i am not a testosterone driven ass guy,
i think i have gotten to the point were you want to try starting the big thing,
also there is no cameras on our store hehehe

I don't eat mayo - don't trust it plus it's got to be the nastiest food substance on the planet [Well maybe].

No but I'm serious here - no girl is worth him being so upset. I've been fcuked with by the best in the business and not one of those females was worth the problems. Just keep looking till you find someone who likes you outright - not one you have to get to like you. And even then keep you're eye out and your heart hardened. They can't hurt you with what you were already prepared for.

you know its weird,,
she just called me and told me, " i love you"
and i said oh ok,,,, and she is like, " why is that reaction"
you usually tell me "i love you too," she said..........

[DEATH]

she just called me and told me, " i love you"
and i said oh ok,,,, and she is like, " why is that reaction"
you usually tell me "i love you too," she said..........

Ah - this changes everything. I don't care where you are in your relationship/not relationship - if she's saying that and she dances that way with other guys [I have to assume it's really "freaking" and not just some normal type "freaking" but I'm into the Goth scene and our "freaking" goes well beyond most others so IDK] then that's not cool unless it was the first time and she didn't know.
I still say let her drop, leave her alone and see where she goes with it. The easiest way to get a girls attn is to pretend you don't care - works everytime I'm afraid.
I also have no time for BS games girls play so I tend to say fcuk it alot.
Keep my comments with a grain of salt tho there be wisdom in these words