Question to all guys here at 6gc, about girls................... Options

[joehernandez]

I know most of the 6gc members are men,
well, i wanted to ask you,
there is this girl i like, and she likes me too, but for some reasons we can't still be together..
the question is,
would you guys let her dance freak with your friends?
even if you are not boyfriend to her?
what about the ones that are in a relationship, would you let her?

i am asking cuz it really sucked for me, and i really want to tell her about that it make me really mad
going to the club and seen her dancing with me and two of my friend freak,.......
need opinions!!

[b1gr3d]

wow i just discovered this thread and honestly its the ONLY one i htink i have read every post LOL i do think that you should not have kissed her though, a fairly timed hug with a little squeeze to it and a kiss on the cheek prob would have been better, ya know that "i'm a dude and now i'm playin hard to get bitch....bring it" kiss. HOWEVER i think you did good, didnt freak out didnt control..nice. just remember what would you do in that situation if she said the things to you, and then think about if you had a horrible day and then that happened...thats a female on a normal day..true. another thing. know when to put your foot down if something is crossing your boundaries, let her know by being assertive but not a dick by calling her names and what not or yelling, raising the voice is ok to a point....whoa sorry getting a little long winded in my own experiences. sum it up: G/J , you play hard to get some, dont be a dick, foot down, be heard\

-Jeremy
oh yeah i have been with the same girl for 6 1/2 yrs