Question to all guys here at 6gc, about girls................... Options

[joehernandez]

I know most of the 6gc members are men,
well, i wanted to ask you,
there is this girl i like, and she likes me too, but for some reasons we can't still be together..
the question is,
would you guys let her dance freak with your friends?
even if you are not boyfriend to her?
what about the ones that are in a relationship, would you let her?

i am asking cuz it really sucked for me, and i really want to tell her about that it make me really mad
going to the club and seen her dancing with me and two of my friend freak,.......
need opinions!!

[RickJamesBish]

1) tell her you like her
2) do the dirty thangs
3) leave immediately after
4) ????
5) profit.

[Havok1997GT]

1) tell her you like her
2) do the dirty thangs
3) leave immediately after
4) ????
5) profit.

AWSOME!

ok. first. Dude, no chick is worth all this crap. Doesnt matter what your story is. You are having to fight way to hard for this girl and ask to many of the wrong questions.

Second. you guys are not dating. you have no say in her life. Period. You can wish all day long that people follow the same rules that you do but its not going to happen. so expect women to be cruel, even more so to someone that they know is crazy for them, doesnt matter if you have told them this or not, they smell it on you.

Third. What kinda friends are you hanging out with? Because either they know about you two or they dont. If they know about you, there is an ass woopin in their future, and you need new friends. If they dont, then your hiding this relationship from them, in which case you dont need to be messing with a chick that you have to hide your relationship from the world. (thats way wrong, coming from experience)

Fourth. If the girl really cared for you, then shes would be on yourside. She wouldnt want to dance with other guys. that is also black and white unless you have said other wise. If you have said that this type of thing doesnt bother you then they can dance with who ever they want because you said its ok and they are not braking any rules. You it does bother you and they know it, then Fcuk of to them, Black and white. Trust me man, If a chick cares for you, they wont do stupid sh!t like that. and after a year or COURTING, they should care for you like that by now, or not at all and they will always be like that.

Thats how i feel about it. To me, caring about someone is black and white, either you do or you dont. you think about that person before you do things. if she was thinking about you she wouldnt have done that. Period. Thats what you have to think about man. How much of your life do you want to put into something that is not coming back to you 100%. Are you happy with on 50%? are you enjoying playing this stupid game with this chick?

and Finally, you shouldnt have to ask a Forums worth of people what you should do. Caring about someone is not about getting permission, or finding other people to tell you you should care. Again, Black and White. If you have to ask, then its not meant to be.

Get away from her man and find someone that will care about you because you care about them.