Starting Over Again......., Kind of hard to admit this stuff, but I ask for advice Options

[Random_Stranger]

Okay, need both the advice from a woman's perspective and men who know how to talk to girls (obviously I am tired of being shy and ready to get back out there). So I am over this whole "Ex" thing now and ready to get back out there. Naturally I am not too too aggressive, but aggressive is necessary in my city as women are not likely to just walk up and talk to you.

So I want some advice on etiquette. Is it okay to ask a chick out who you just met for the first time, let's say if you show up at her work? For instance....

Just tonight coming back from Tuner Tuesdays, I stopped off at a store to get some smokes. A girl about my age asked if I needed help. So I asked for the smokes, showed ID. Then she is like "So how are you doing tonight?" and I was like "Good" then I paused thinking "Why would she even bother talking to me? No one really does that they just ring you up and send your happy ass on your way". I am not the kind to take kindness for general interest, yet I was curious to pursue because she was pretty and had a Fat Booty (which I admit I like that* Here is where you laugh). So I asked her "How is your day?" and she was like "Good actually, and I get off work here in a bit so that is even better" and I was like "Yeah, that is good". Then she was like "Well you take care" and I said "you too" and left.

Now, normally this really doesn't happen to me. The only time it does is when I make eye contact with a girl and she smiles a lot and then we end up talking a bit before I leave. So I dunno how to read women. Was a situation like that just out of kindness? I mean, me personally, would strike up conversations with "regulars" be it man or woman, and if a girl caught my eye, then I try to talk to them. So would a woman operate the same way?

I am lost. It has been awhile (like a few years) since I have started dating (I mean seriously, not just having booty calls here and there from chicks a lil lower than your standards). Looking for something around my level (not saying that I am all that either though). I know this is a stupid thread, but I dunno who else to turn to and it is starting to be kind of a big deal for me. I mean I am 26! I am still young, but this stuff I should have down already!

You guys wanna flame me it is cool, but like I said, I really ask your thoughts.

[OregonBoy]

shes just doin her job...i wouldnt worry about her...look for someone else

k thanks. no pointers? Is it okay to ask for someone's number first time you meet?

Yes everything is ok man. If you felt that she was kinda flirting with you than go for it. Whats the worst that can happen? Dont use pick up lines. DONT use pick up lines.

I'm Afraid here, we just talk mostly about our 6GC cars and give advice on that. If it was a 6GC, I would say " Yah that New Body Kit sure made her hotter" or "Man that new muffler sure made her ass stand out " and "Is it just me? or did the Le-Bra make her headlights bigger?"

Love comes and goes. I've seen some old farts marrying some young tarts just because of the financial situations and I mean a 40+ married to a 17.
Dam makes me jealous. Ask for her # the first time? If she really likes you she will be asking for your number. These days a lot of girls are materialistic, gold diggers and only hang around popular people. If your desperate and feel lonely or just need somone to hug you and hold your hand because you feel insecure I would suggest you to go to a strip club. At least the girls there will respect you® {money} and dance around you. They always smile, and will do anything to take you® {money}.

Sorry I just had to say it.
but next time roll up to the gas station in a Benz and buy some smoke, the conversation will suddenly change to "Can I go for a ride in your car?"

haha not all girls are golddiggers. Im more broke than my car and my girl and i are happily in love.