Headlight problem, Relay, maybe? Options

[JoKeRkId613]

ok. i came home and i turn off my headlights normally. my sister calls me out telling me i left my headlights on. so i check and yeah, theyre on but the knob thing is turned off, just how i left it. so i pop the hood and you can hear like a "zzzzzzzz" electrical current noise from the fuse box. so i open that, pull the fat brown "HEAD" fuse out and the lights shut off. i know thats normal. lol. but yeah. i put it back in and it automatically turns the headlights on and makes that same noise again in 2 seconds after putting the relay in. do i need a new headlight relay or what? i mean, is this normal and what could have caused this? thanks for the input and help in advance everyone.

o, and i dont believe i've messed with anything that has to do with the low beams. i mean, just replacing the harness because i put wannabe hid bulbs in there so i didnt wnat them to melt, but the harness seems fine