Why are guys only out to get some? Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

Every guy i meet (usually between the ages of 19-23) basically wants to in the near future hook up or nothing at all. And the nice guys i do meet that are looking to possibly start something serious are usually someone that im not attracted to (either phsyically or some other reason)

I dont understand - Obviously you can sit here and say im meeting the wrong kind of guys - yeah i probably should stop meeting them around cars :-P
but even if i meet them otherwise ---its like they wont even stay as a friend they just wanna hook up and be done.

I dont know but im tired of it - 80 percent of guys between 19-23 seem to be all the same!!

WHERES THE 20 PERCENT I HAVENT MET??? haha


Natalie

[Mr_E]

WHERES THE 20 PERCENT I HAVENT MET??? haha

Depends. Are you fit?

[BlackCelicaGT94]

I dont have any problems getting the guys

its just i meet the asshole ones but yet my friends dont meet the nice ones either! and even my guy friends get the crazy bitches that we've been talking about

i just dont think nice guys and normal girls exist

This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Nov 24, 2004 - 10:19 AM

[BlackCelicaGT94]

WHERES THE 20 PERCENT I HAVENT MET??? haha

Depends. Are you fit?
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hehe that question reminds me of something Ali G would say - i love that guy!!

[chucho]

But the nice ones, like me, always has girls wanting to go out w/ me. But after we spend time and i treat them right decide I'm not what their looking for I dont know, I dont get jealous, my ex sayed that was a flaw, and I dont care if you go out w/ your friends, even if its guys. My last girl i was talking to best friend was one of her ex-boyfriends and I didnt care if she talked to him. But that one ended 'cause her mom didnt want her dating a guy in college, i'm a freshman & she's a junior in HS

[BlackCelicaGT94]

well that age thing is BS! my mom is like dont bring anyone home under 22 :-P

and she wants me to have kids like SOON - ahhhh not what i want!

but yeah i like a guy who gets a bit jealous - not to the point i cant leave the house cuz i might meet someone but just enough to show that he cares a bit - *though someone recently showed me that jealousy is not the way you show someone that you care*

i also have F'd up in the past and had the nice guy but took advantage of the situation and he ended up ditching me for another girl haha actually on the weekend that i was gonna tell him i liked him - were good friends now and i actually am gonna go see him in arizona soon but nothing is there anymore cuz of that situation-

This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Nov 24, 2004 - 10:29 AM

[chucho]

i just dont think nice guys and normal girls exist
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I've meet two girls that were awesome and great girls that werent crazy but one didnt want to date and the other I just talked about.

[neoklis]

Flash news nat, its not only 19-23. its a male thing and it starts from the age of 10 until we die. ha ha

Seriously though, if you are meeting so many loosers all the time maybe its time to move or your standards by which you measure guys are unbelievably wrong.

In general, you need to keep in mind that men mature much later than women, so you should be looking at 28year old like me for example.

[thedevilmaycrie]

where do i fit in nat???

-DMC

[chucho]

It's cool, 'cause I dont want to date her anymore, something happen a couple weeks ago and she showed her age but if we do see each other in a couple years I wouldnt be against it

[BlackCelicaGT94]

Ha my parents are 13 years apart in age so age isnt a big deal to me!

yeah my standards vary - but i dont know i seem to go for the guy who has problems - IE the last guy had a ganga problems!!!

and also i guess i dont meet any gentlemen - i drive, i pay (usually i offer), etc

im moving to the south to meet a SOUTHERN GENTLEMEN -plus they have accents-

[Consynx]

psh...a guy needs only few things to remain happy...
you can do them, and then you have your "seriousness" that you want, because you can take it away

[dstrbcelica]

when i used to go out, i didn't go out to get any. but, i don't have to worry about that now b/c i'm very happy w/my current relationship. i'm about to pop the question soon too..

-dstrb

[chucho]

Ha my parents are 13 years apart in age so age isnt a big deal to me!

yeah my standards vary - but i dont know i seem to go for the guy who has problems - IE the last guy had a ganga problems!!!

and also i guess i dont meet any gentlemen - i drive, i pay (usually i offer), etc

im moving to the south to meet a SOUTHERN GENTLEMEN -plus they have accents-
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I ain't gut neaux southern a'xent
(neaux is alittle cajun french thing in la )

This post has been edited by chucho: Nov 24, 2004 - 11:54 AM

[Digndoug]

well, the problem is, its easier to meet a ass-hole.. for one example, Im a nice guy, Im lik old fasion.. I treat the ladies nice, an like my ex-g/f's friends all thought i was the nicesit guy an so one. But Im pretty damn she, when it comes to a girl that I like an wanna ask out. I dunno if i would be concidere your type. but Im always told by plenty of dif girls that im there type.. but the alwyas have to have b/f's damn women..

[chucho]

well, the problem is, its easier to meet a ass-hole.. for one example, Im  a nice guy, Im lik old fasion.. I treat the ladies nice, an like my ex-g/f's friends all thought i was the nicesit guy an so one. But Im pretty damn she, when it comes to a girl that I like an wanna ask out.  I dunno if i would be concidere your type. but Im always told by plenty of dif girls that im there type.. but the alwyas have to have b/f's damn women..
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It's a front, when they dont have their BFs they dont say that anymore lol. But i personnaly have to be friends before i can date someone. Not the type to walk up and ask someone out, even though i flirt alot and could get dates easy. Shoot I should have been born back in the 60s

[coustoe]

you said yourself "someone that im not attracted to (either phsyically or some other reason)"

Your attracted to people on a physical level

why do you think it would be different for guys, especially physically attractive guys.

[Jdog1385]

im moving to the south to meet a SOUTHERN GENTLEMEN -plus they have accents-

come to the east, i have an accent (Brooklyn)

[Gilbert_619]

hahah its not really that your friends have the nice guys..you just dont see them fighting.. its all a cover up all guys are asshole finding a guy thats for real nice....its like a girl with a weener even tho very possible in this world the chances are slim..

all my friends thought my ex was perfect cuz she treated me really nice infront of them and like **** when it was just me and her...

relationships are like a battle...your always hiding your knives behind you to strategically place them in their back..

i say just live life one day at a time and worry about more important thing that need to be worked on...ie. celica/school haha

[Ale_lock]

They exist, we just hide cause then crazy bishes corrupt us, two almost did me.