I decided, I'm tired of women Options

[latinomasfino]

25th-

Are you serious dude?  I think that might be what I'm in line for...  I really think I just lost her to this dude who tried a year ago to force her to have sex with him...   Now, this past weekend I found out he was visiting her for the weekend at her dorm (and I know how big her dorm room is. hence, I know where he slept if it wasn't on the floor). 

Carrie (ex)  and I used to get in big arguments over this kid.  Because I was trying to protect her.  I felt like she was blindly walking into a horrible situation. She would yell at me to stop protecting her and that its her life and so on. 

She and I have gone round and round the past 3 years.  We were the off and on type relationship, but we truly felt love in each other.   Now last night, she was like "I don't love you anymore"

I'm so lost right now.  I mean I totally got knocked on my ass with this and I don't know how to get up.  I feel sick, I am not hungry at all, etc.

What should I do?
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dawg same **** happen to me man my gf of year and a half cheated on me with this a hole but u know whut man i was sad for couple months but then i realized i had to take care of mysefl make my self look good uknow watch out for # 1 screw gilrs its alll about me...hit the gym started dressing better..suddenly i was gettin better girsls than my ex.....so i would reccomend that u reaasses ur self and see wut u can improve on then take steps to improve and get ur REVENGE man and its tastess OOOOHHH OHHHH sooo sweet...(PS after my change my ex came up to me and tried to get back wiht me and u know wut i told her " umm sorri but my standards are kinda hi now and umm u just didnt make the cut " OOOOOO lol MUAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHH

This post has been edited by latinomasfino: Jan 24, 2005 - 11:25 AM

[Jen]

Wow, all the girls you guys have met seem to be complete bitchfaces. Although I wasn't the *best* girlfriend in my past relationship, I can tell you that you will not get ANYWHERE being an asshole to a girl. Up until now, I've the worst experiences with guys. They all treated me like poo.. always getting mad at me for petty things.. being a bit controlling (I admit I was like that too at times). It seriously only pushes girls away (at least the smart ones). I really don't know why some girls go for assholes. They're just setting theirself up for heartbreak and hurt. Short tempers are horrible too. Sigh.

I'm really glad I met John..

[Jen]

" umm sorri but my standards are kinda hi now and umm u just didnt make the cut " OOOOOO lol MUAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHH
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That's really low and ignorant.. whether she deserved it or not..

Guys like you turn girls into lesbians.

[dstrbcelica]

wow..someone got

-dstrb

[latinomasfino]

" umm sorri but my standards are kinda hi now and umm u just didnt make the cut " OOOOOO lol MUAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHH
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That's really low and ignorant.. whether she deserved it or not..

Guys like you turn girls into lesbians.
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well i think she did deserve that cuase she f'ed up she broke my heart split it in 2 and fed the peices to some dog...and did it make me feel better YES it did Y because she actualy thought she could come back to me after wut she did so no SHE GOT OWNED not me

[Jen]

People make mistakes. You can't dwell on things forever, and be bitter about it.. and THEN make asshole/ignorant comments to her. Wow@that. You could have simply told her you didn't want her back, and not a d-ck about it.

[thedevilmaycrie]

I'm also confused why girls like guys who treat them like crap. The girl I like now doesn't like me and I dunno why but it's a big headache.
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Does everyone want to know the secret to why women want only guys that treat them like crap???

its actually simple... all girls and most will admit it when you ask them want a guy thats as a$$hole because they want to change them... they want someone to change for them, or they want to be able to sit back and say "I changed them".. its kinda like a guy sitting back after rebuilding an engine and heres it run for the first time .... you think to yourself "i made that"... its the same concept... however i will not say all females are like that... i gotta girl that i treat like a queen and i am treated awsome in return...

-DMC

[4wheelWOnder]

she has a point................

[Jen]

Does everyone want to know the secret to why women want only guys that treat them like crap???

its actually simple...  all girls and most will admit it when you ask them want a guy thats as a$$hole because they want to change them...  they want someone to change for them, or they want to be able to sit back and say "I changed them".. its kinda like a guy sitting back after rebuilding an engine and heres it run for the first time .... you think to yourself "i made that"... its the same concept... however i will not say all females are like that... i gotta girl that i treat like a queen and i am treated awsome in return...

-DMC
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Not really. I don't even mess with the assholes.

[thedevilmaycrie]

like i said jen im not putting all females in this catagory but most are...

-DMC

[Jen]

Not ones I know. If girls are really like that, they're f-cking idiots. I'm ashamed of my gender in that case.

Haha.

[4wheelWOnder]

she has a point.............

[latinomasfino]

People make mistakes. You can't dwell on things forever, and be bitter about it.. and THEN make asshole/ignorant comments to her. Wow@that. You could have simply told her you didn't want her back, and not a d-ck about it.
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well ok maybe i could have but check this out so even b4 i changed like her friends are my friends and whe we broke up like she would say how bad of a bf i was how i treatd her bad and that i had dumped her for no reason..so when i told them the truth that she had banged some other guy she lied to them and said that she had been drugged OMGGG now can u relaly tell me that she didnt deserve it

[Jen]

PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES. Seriously. You just proved to her that you really ARE an asshole (no, I'm not calling you one <3) like she told her friends. There are a lot better ways to handle such a situation. Your way was ridiculus, immature, ignorant, and cold-hearted. Of course what she did was horrible, but "revenge" is immature and pointless. You can't stay bitter over something forever, seriously.

^ WHY SOME GIRLS ARE BITCHES.

[brianforster]

girls want what they cant have, thus they desire the guy whos going to ignore them and treat hem like ****

there are some girls that arent like that, also, when your the nice guy and you finally get a girl it ends up being a better relationship then the ashole guys get, so its worth it in the end

[4wheelWOnder]

can i say he has a point too......

[Jen]

Some girls are stupid. Guys are just going after the wrong girls. Obviously the ones with the looks but not the smarts.

Rarely you find a girl with both. Then you're lucky.

[4wheelWOnder]

i look at it like this..........."GIRLS", yes, are stupid. why cause they are young, they sometimes dont know what they want.

[Jen]

Good point.

[Akimbo]

Scars by Papa Roach is pretty good song
Cold by Crossfade
So Far Away too
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I have all those! And a lloooootttt more breakup songs. Cols is a good one, so is So Far Away, and Broken by Seether. Scars is alright.

There's a lot of good points in this thread. You just gotta remember that there are a lot of different types of girls in the world. So...everyone's points are applicable, just depends on the lady.