4 year girlfriend, broke up with me Options

[Bigmeanbulldog55]

My girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me yesturday. I was pretty distort today, but I've got my act together now. Her and I talked a little bit ago, and I guess she broke up with me because she wants to be a better person and she thinks she can do that if she's not with me for awile. I'm one of those guys who just lets girls walk all over them, and does anything they want. And she took advantage of it. She admits she did. And she hates herself for it now. She said she wants to be a better person for me. I didn't think she loved me, but now I'm begining to think she really does. I don't have a clue why I posted this. Maybe it's a word to those guys out there like me who let girls do this to them. Girls will walk all over you if you let them. I wouldn't have it any other way though. I don't want to be mean to girls, and hopefully I'll be lucky enough to have gotten one who doesn't want to be mean to me either.

[droptopGT]

sorry to hear about it bro, pour yourself a drink and join the rest of the fellas. we know how you feel man, hang in there and with time your wounds will heal.. sorry to hear again

[Bigmeanbulldog55]

sorry to hear about it bro, pour yourself a drink and join the rest of the fellas. we know how you feel man, hang in there and with time your wounds will heal.. sorry to hear again
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Thank you for your kind words, but drinking is for week people. I'll never drink again in my life. I think it's one of the worse things a person could ever do.

[do_0b]

sorry to hear about it bro, pour yourself a drink and join the rest of the fellas. we know how you feel man, hang in there and with time your wounds will heal.. sorry to hear again
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Thank you for your kind words, but drinking is for week people. I'll never drink again in my life. I think it's one of the worse things a person could ever do.
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Go out for a nice drive, in a empty, curvy road. Like in the mountains if you are near any. It'll get your mind off a lot of things.

[Supersprynt]

Drinking is one of the worst things a person could do...thats a lil skewed. Rape, murder, robbery...drinking? Eh not so much. Certainly not the answer, but certainly not one of the worst things.

To the real point, driving alone will get your mind off other things, but it definately wont get ur mind off of her. Stay busy, be with friends doing stuff, thats the only way to temporarily dull the pain.

[Digndoug]

sorry to hear about it bro, pour yourself a drink and join the rest of the fellas. we know how you feel man, hang in there and with time your wounds will heal.. sorry to hear again
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Thank you for your kind words, but drinking is for week people. I'll never drink again in my life. I think it's one of the worse things a person could ever do.
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I can disagree on the drinking part, I drink beer cause i enjoy it. I dont over drink or anything..

Also **** happens.. I think we have all been there, that was pretty much the same story with me. Im better for it now, and a lot stronger about it.

[Akimbo]

Super said it best. Stay busy...keep your schedule full.

Trust me, you'll find a new girl down the road that will be superior to your ex.

This post has been edited by Akimbo: Apr 26, 2005 - 9:59 AM

[ILuvMyCelica95]

My girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me yesturday.  I was pretty distort today, but I've got my act together now.  Her and I talked a little bit ago, and I guess she broke up with me because she wants to be a better person and she thinks she can do that if she's not with me for awile.  I'm one of those guys who just lets girls walk all over them, and does anything they want.  And she took advantage of it.  She admits she did.  And she hates herself for it now.  She said she wants to be a better person for me.  I didn't think she loved me, but now I'm begining to think she really does.  I don't have a clue why I posted this.  Maybe it's a word to those guys out there like me who let girls do this to them.  Girls will walk all over you if you let them.  I wouldn't have it any other way though.  I don't want to be mean to girls, and hopefully I'll be lucky enough to have gotten one who doesn't want to be mean to me either.
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That sucks, breakups always do. I agree with the guys on keeping busy, and driving always helps.

Oh and not all girls will walk all over you. I never walked all over my exes. I did everything for them like a stupid housewife, cook,clean, all that stupid sh!t. I do it for my guy friends to though, Basically i let them walk all over me, or maybe i just enjoy waiting on men, oh who knows... couldnt tell ya im still single... *sigh*

[Bigmeanbulldog55]

My girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me yesturday.  I was pretty distort today, but I've got my act together now.  Her and I talked a little bit ago, and I guess she broke up with me because she wants to be a better person and she thinks she can do that if she's not with me for awile.  I'm one of those guys who just lets girls walk all over them, and does anything they want.  And she took advantage of it.  She admits she did.  And she hates herself for it now.  She said she wants to be a better person for me.  I didn't think she loved me, but now I'm begining to think she really does.  I don't have a clue why I posted this.  Maybe it's a word to those guys out there like me who let girls do this to them.  Girls will walk all over you if you let them.  I wouldn't have it any other way though.  I don't want to be mean to girls, and hopefully I'll be lucky enough to have gotten one who doesn't want to be mean to me either.
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That sucks, breakups always do. I agree with the guys on keeping busy, and driving always helps.

Oh and not all girls will walk all over you. I never walked all over my exes. I did everything for them like a stupid housewife, cook,clean, all that stupid sh!t. I do it for my guy friends to though, Basically i let them walk all over me, or maybe i just enjoy waiting on men, oh who knows... couldnt tell ya im still single... *sigh*
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Girls who do like you say y0ur doing go out with jerks most of the time. They don't like nice guys cause, well, I don't know. I did try to go for a drive yesturday, you'll notice my test drive post. Driving makes me happy. Driving and playing music. I still drove a lot yesturday, even though I couldn't test drive anything. I think things will be okay.

[Rjb23]

My girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me yesturday.  I was pretty distort today, but I've got my act together now.  Her and I talked a little bit ago, and I guess she broke up with me because she wants to be a better person and she thinks she can do that if she's not with me for awile.  I'm one of those guys who just lets girls walk all over them, and does anything they want.  And she took advantage of it.  She admits she did.  And she hates herself for it now.  She said she wants to be a better person for me.  I didn't think she loved me, but now I'm begining to think she really does.  I don't have a clue why I posted this.  Maybe it's a word to those guys out there like me who let girls do this to them.  Girls will walk all over you if you let them.  I wouldn't have it any other way though.  I don't want to be mean to girls, and hopefully I'll be lucky enough to have gotten one who doesn't want to be mean to me either.
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If you work out, go work out. It always helps me clear my head. And super is right drinking doesn't do anything but depress you. Or you could always play some paintball!

[Supersprynt]

Whenever I start thinking about her and whatever I do pushups til I cant do them anymore...it helps.

[shin]

well yea, like super said, get busy. it'll temporarily let ya forget her for the time when you're doing other stuff.. but remember this, you learn from experience, failing on this relationship will make the next a even better one. hang in there bro.

[dustin15brown]

I don't agree Akimbo, sure there COULD be someone like that but in some cases what you have IS the superior and there's no way around it. Give it time, and pray about things man. Prayer is the best solution, and I agree drinkin in dumb