my relationship is over, update from last thread Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

:-D

[Supersprynt]

alright im wrong and dont know what im talking about


keep wasiting ur time with this girl - its been 10 years and gone no where..continue doing it for another 10
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If you read the entire thing you'd know that he is done with her.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

i did read it and hes not done..he will go back...if not as trying for more then he will try for a friendship

[lagos]

no nat, you are right the girl is playing me for a fool. trust me, this is the end for me. i dont ever want to speak to her again.

but here is something i dont understand. how a girl spend so much time playing a guy and not fall in love? i mean, you can keep telling somone how special they are, going out on dates, etc... for so long, but after a few years you would think that your game would backfire on you and you would end up loving the guy too, right ?

This post has been edited by lagos: May 18, 2005 - 2:57 PM

[Supersprynt]

So he's not done because YOU say so? How is that a remotely valid argument?

[BlackCelicaGT94]

i cant speak in terms of years but i can say that i like attention. girls love attention! it can be a simple text message every now and then or it could be wanting to be with the person every minute. We want something stable but are unstable ourselves and maybe shes like me..i wanna settle down but when it comes to it i really cant do it right now. i like going out and meeting new people and experiencing new things.

[lagos]

i think the problem with girls is that they get too much attention. there is always a new guy right around to corner wanting to date them, weather they like it or not. they never stop and realize what they have right in front of them. then they hit mid 30s and wonder why all men are assholes.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

or hit 19 and wonder why all the guys are A-holes :-D

[lagos]

if i place my self in jens point of view, i can kind of understand the situation.

if i was a good looking bar tender that got hit on all the time, i would probably not have fallen in love with some girl thats always been there for me. i would be to busy trying to explore who is around the corner and what they can do for me. so i kind of understand her. the ****ed up thing is that she always knew that its was love for me, and used that to make me think that we had something speical, so that i would spend hours on the phone with her, buy her gifts, etc... this is why i will never trust her again .

This post has been edited by lagos: May 18, 2005 - 3:09 PM

[Supersprynt]

I've only bought a gift for one girl who wasnt my girlfriend and thats only because she was my best friend and it was her birthday.

And it was a "vintage" Nintendo with the original box. She always said she wanted one so I got it for her, totally ripped apart what her b/f got her.

This post has been edited by Supersprynt: May 18, 2005 - 3:22 PM

[coustoe]

no nat, you are right the girl is playing me for a fool. trust me, this is the end for me. i dont ever want to speak to her again.

but here is something i dont understand. how a girl spend so much time playing a guy and not fall in love? i mean, you can keep telling somone how special they are, going out on dates, etc... for so long, but after a few years you would think that your game would backfire on you and you would end up loving the guy too, right ?
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shes an emotional vampire, she uses you for emotional support

[95gtschick]

I feel for you man, I really do, but listen, you have to get yourself together and burn some bridges!! that's what i did to my dumb b*tch ex

i know you still love her and whatnot, but you wont in 5-6months, so burn them bridges!!

what i did was after she did almost the exact same thing to me i took her out for a ride in my friends ram1500, after driving into a weired part of the city i pretended like i thought the rear right tire was flat, so i asked her to go out and check the tire while i stayed in the car and got the pressure checker, while she went out and looked, i shifted the truck into RWD and did a nice big burnout and shot up some nice gravel in her slut face, then i sped off leaving her stranded at 1am in the far reaches of toronto

all my guy friends love the story
all my girl friends hate it

don't attempt unless you're an a@@hole like me though..


but to be more serious.. time heals all wounds
keep yourself busy, try not to dwell on it, you'll be fine man 
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^^^ disgusting
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Natalie i'm with you on this one. That is truly the rudest, stupidest thing i've heard, for me... well, i've never played "games" with a guy. i've only had 2 boyfriend's in my life, the first one broke up with me, the second one... i'm still with, after 4 years. i just can't bring myself to be mean to a guy... take care lagos..

[Mike]

or hit 19 and wonder why all the guys are A-holes :-D
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guys are only a@@holes to ugly girls anyway

[BlackCelicaGT94]

we only play games with ugly guys! :-D


oh and if a guy i was dating ever took me out for a drive in a weird part of town at 1am and said oh i think the tire might be F'd up will u get out and check id look at him and be excuse me?!

u do not ditch a girl in a weird part of town at 1am or even tell her to check ur car for u! pathetic!

This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: May 18, 2005 - 5:22 PM

[jgreening]

Shes feeding u lies..shes trying to keep the friendship where its at and where its been.

Shes just not that into you! if she really loved u or wanted to try with u then she wouldnt care about Jamie!
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Well lets over use this "he/she is just not that into you." This is definately not a case for that because SHE keeps coming to HIM so no thats just, not the case.
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im a girl and i think i can reply to lagos situation a bit better considering im a girl who plays games.
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Being a girl doesnt mean a damn thing when it comes to advice. Both men and women play games. However, your changing the subject. The point is, its not a case of "she's just not into you" the latest relationship fad sweeping the nation. Someone who is "just not into you" doesnt do what she's doing. Its a long term relationship, they both have feelings for eachother.
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Erik:

I agree with Natalie on this one (thats twice now). The girl is not into Art, period. She likes him as a friend and has fun messing around with him a bit but she is not into him in the sense of "having him as her boyfriend". She is the type of girl that keeps a guy on the line in hopes of someone better coming along. Its complete bullsh1t. Any "feelings" she does have do not add up to her being willing to give up other potential guys. She's just not that into him.

Jay.

[Ale_lock]

I haven't read the entire thread but I read your first post, and yeah, women are just as confused as guys, I went through the same situation twice where some dude out of nowhre comes up and shyt goes downhill, when the second one occured, I just cut her off.

[lagos]

we only play games with ugly guys! :-D
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i dont think thats true at all. girls are all about dramma 24/7 with everyone they meet.

i think jay and nat are right, just not 100%.

the girl was very into me. you could see it on her face, hear it in her voice, even her closest friends would tell me. i mean, this is not like i was just her friend and got the wrong idea. i had a real realationship with her. i was even her offical boyfrined for about a year when we first met....and you know how that ended? i dumped her for another girl! after that we became friends and still kept the physical part of the realationship going for on and off over the years.

the problem is that she never fell in love with me. over the years her feeling for me changed from someone special, to the guy she dosnt have to pay attention to, because he will always be around. so over time she lost intrest and just draged it out for the benefits she would get out of the friendship

This post has been edited by lagos: May 18, 2005 - 6:06 PM

[BlackCelicaGT94]

i was kidding about playing games with ugly guys cuz that guy said that guys are only a-holes to ugly girls

[Mike]

we only play games with ugly guys! :-D


oh and if a guy i was dating ever took me out for  a drive in a weird part of town at 1am and said oh i think the tire might be F'd up will u get out and check id look at him and be excuse me?!

u do not ditch a girl in a weird part of town at 1am or even tell her to check ur car for u! pathetic!
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I don't know what's worse
being called pathetic
or being called pathetic by you

it's called getting even, and you know what? It will probably happen to you some day

[johnsonius_87]

im not much at given advice.. all i can say is hang in there & things will eventually get better.. even though probably everything you do, say, everywhere you go, songs you hear, movies you watch.. remind you of her. ive only had one b/f & he broke up w/ me 2 wks ago. the first wk was hard. we're still friends & ive hung out w/ him (in a group) a few times since then, but ppl we're both friends still tell me he talks about me alot & i still care about him. so i dont understand why he ended it. he says we might work things out later & get back together sometime.. but if he still cares about me & loves me like he says then what was the point in breaking up w/ me?! he has his reasons.. he's goin to texas & doesnt know how long he'll be gone.. then he'll be working full time outta town, etc.. but still.. i would be willing to make things work out.. anyway, sry for changing the subj, but i sorta understand where ur comin from.. good luck.