my relationship is over, update from last thread Options

[Digndoug]

I think your last comment was kinda out of line, yes she is making a bigggg mistake.. buttt... i wouldnt go as far as saying you never want to talk to her again..

[dustin15brown]

update us lagos

[lagos]

Digndoug,

i have not spoken to her since and i dont plan to. here is why...

i did a lot for this girl over the years. she also always knew i was in love with her and kind of used that to her advantage. she even told my sister once, that she just dates other guys for the fun of it, but she would really love to marry me someday.

the last time we talked, she told me that she would go out with me, but she didnt want to miss out on this guy she just met. this was the end point for me where i realized that if some guy she barely knows is more important, then i have totally wasted my time with her. i started to feel that she never loved me and only did and said what i needed to hear, just so that i would be a part of her life the way i had been all these years. any girl that can do that to a guy for so long, and know the feelings at stake, is not worth my time. if i keep talking to her, she will just pull the same **** again for years. i would hate to marry her and find out she cheated on me or something. so its best to walk away now for good.

[Digndoug]

Digndoug,

i have not spoken to her since and i dont plan to. here is why...

i did a lot for this girl over the years. she also always knew i was in love with her and kind of used that to her advantage. she even told my sister once, that she just dates other guys for the fun of it, but she would really love to marry me someday.

the last time we talked, she told me that she would go out with me, but she didnt want to miss out on this guy she just met. this was the end point for me where i realized that if some guy she barely knows is more important, then i have totally wasted my time with her. i started to feel that she never loved me and only did and said what i needed to hear, just so that i would be a part of her life the way i had been all these years. any girl that can do that to a guy for so long, and know the feelings at stake, is not worth my time. if i keep talking to her, she will just pull the same **** again for years. i would hate to marry her and find out she cheated on me or something. so its best to walk away now for good.
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I kinda understand.. That kinda seemed like me an my ex.. she basicaly broke up with me.. then Im assuming, an was told, but she denied, that she had been with another guy, then tried to come back into my life. Like try to hang with me and do the norm stuff we would allways do. I did it for a week then thought what am i doing an said **** it.. I spoke to her, but kept it real brief.. an she felt like **** every time.. that was my point.

Women are screwd up ... ALL WOMEN most get caught up in there lil game an get screwed liek your friend..

Sorry bro, but you love once you will love again. It takes Balls to do what your doing.