Problem, what would you do? Options

[amysmojo]

Hmmm good thinking Natalie!! Go work out w/ her (whatever it may be ) and pretty soon her clothes will fit like they should

[SoundSlut_dotcom]

make her feel the way she dresses.. give her so much of it she wont want no more

[SoundSlut_dotcom]

make it hurt lmao

[creis]

I really dont know anything to say that would help you out, just tread very carefully, and get to know how she reacts to things so you can find the best way to tell her (or not tell her,) watch movies toghether that have events in them that can in some way relate to your current situation, then see what she says about them, basicly try and get her to say "being hounist is always best" or "people should keep the opinons to them selfs if they know its hurtful" that way you can let her decide how you go about this issue without her knowing it.

I guess If I was going out with someone who though I was wearing cloase that did not suit me, or if they felt I needed to lose waigh I would want them to be nice about it, but tell me, I think as long as they are being respactful and nice I would not take it badly.

[coustoe]

Does she eat a lot of junk food? I know if im dating a guy who eats healthy when we go out then i try to eat healthy as well so i dont look like im an oinker! :-P

I think you should not only focus on trying to get her to cover up but also help her get in shape. It would be bonding time for both of you and everyone can use 30mins to an hour of activity each day.
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I'm sorta of a health nut, so the whole thing is probably bothering me more then a normal person, and Ya she eats a lot of junk food.

[coustoe]

maybe she is broke like me & cant afford to buy new clothes! My midriff shows all the time cause my shirts dont seem to like to stay down around my middle LOl I would love to buy stuff that stays where i want it but....Im honestly too broke!

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haha, I think you might be right, shes a poor college student, and constantly talks about being broke, I remember she said something like she couldnt find any shirts that fit down over her waist shes kinda tall 5' 8", i dont know how true this is because I bought her some shirts that fit but she never wears them.

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[BlackCelicaGT94]

im 5'8 and have a chest so some shirts dont fit on me cuz my chest seems to take a lot of the shirt up...but if u shop around then u can find clothes..granted i dont spend less than 50 bucks on a shirt usually

[ILuvMyCelica95]

maybe she is broke like me & cant afford to buy new clothes! My midriff shows all the time cause my shirts dont seem to like to stay down around my middle LOl I would love to buy stuff that stays where i want it but....Im honestly too broke!

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haha, I think you might be right, shes a poor college student, and constantly talks about being broke, I remember she said something like she couldnt find any shirts that fit down over her waist shes kinda tall 5' 8", i dont know how true this is because I bought her some shirts that fit but she never wears them.
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It also depends on where you shop- a lot of heavier girls don't like to not wear what's "in" like those low cut jeans and such. I know that I personally do not go near the JR. Department in any store. Unfortunately my body type is not what a 20 year old is supposed to look like because the JR department clothes look horrible on me. I was recently in Macy's and I was like wtf.

But, I also work in an office so I'm not going to be prancing around in low cut jeans and tight shirts, and even when im out of the office I don't- but that's beside the point.

Stores like NY&Co (MY FAV!!!) and Express sells clothes in different sizes like tall average and petite ( yay petite for me! ) I know things can be expensive but there are also a lot of good sales and things.

edit: Tina can't spell ha ha

This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: May 24, 2005 - 12:54 PM

[amysmojo]

one time my old BF's mom was like "that poor girl! it must be hard for her to find clothes that fit right since she is so tall!" (im only 5'7") but his mom was pretty short so I must have looked like a giant lol

[BlackCelicaGT94]

I love INC, Kenneth Cole, Banana Republic, Express, etc


expensive places but well made clothes that fit

im the same Tina - i hate low cut jeans..i never shop Jr's dept.. i swear jr department is for 10-15 year olds.

[SoundSlut_dotcom]

im 5'8 and have a chest so some shirts dont fit on me cuz my chest seems to take a lot of the shirt up...but if u shop around then u can find clothes..granted i dont spend less than 50 bucks on a shirt usually
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are u fat?

[ILuvMyCelica95]

one time my old BF's mom was like "that poor girl! it must be hard for her to find clothes that fit right since she is so tall!" (im only 5'7") but his mom was pretty short so I must have looked like a giant lol
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lol Amy & Nat you guys would tower over me! lol

[SoundSlut_dotcom]

im 5'8 and have a chest so some shirts dont fit on me cuz my chest seems to take a lot of the shirt up...but if u shop around then u can find clothes..granted i dont spend less than 50 bucks on a shirt usually
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are u fat?
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if your not then u can show off all u want..

if u are u got nerve lol

[BlackCelicaGT94]

Could i lose a few pounds? Sure - who couldnt?!

but i was raised not to show off a lot..i was raised to be professional and mature and first impressions are everything. I look 23 so I dress as a 23 year old professional most of the time. Not a 19 year old soroity girl!

I just was blessed with damn 36DDD damn them

[SoundSlut_dotcom]

DDD? or DD?

[SoundSlut_dotcom]

thats good tho

[BlackCelicaGT94]

whatev comes after DD cuz my DD bra is too small but im too afraid to get a larger bra cuz i dont wanna face the fact yet!

[SoundSlut_dotcom]

send me a pic lol