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 May 31, 2005 - 6:21 PM
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So, update. I went to talk to him today before a job interview at the mall. I decided to ask him more questions. He continued to lie. So, when he gets home (we live together now) I will definitely be, calmly, throwing the "evidence" in his face.
We'll see where it goes from there. After this I can't trust him at all. -------------------- |
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May 31, 2005 - 7:05 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Apr 4, '04 From VA, USA Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
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May 31, 2005 - 7:33 PM
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you live with a dude you've known for HOW long?
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May 31, 2005 - 8:04 PM
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arent you only 17? well anyway if he lied and you know the truth just straight up tell him its happened to me so many times with the same guy and trust me he will keep lieing to you your young listen to ppl around you but i know how it is the best thing to do it just confront him
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May 31, 2005 - 9:26 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Sep 4, '03 From Twin Cities MN Currently Offline Reputation: 2 (100%) |
Whatever it was- he knew it was the wrong thing to do because he said "dont tell my girlfried"... I know I wouldent trust, or waste my time, with anyone who intentionally sneeks around about stuff...
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May 31, 2005 - 9:43 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Jul 14, '03 From Jacksonville, FL Currently Offline Reputation: 2 (100%) |
QUOTE(Andason @ May 31, 2005 - 7:33 PM) you live with a dude you've known for HOW long? [right][snapback]293772[/snapback][/right] Ok. QUOTE(lil_rico @ May 31, 2005 - 8:04 PM) arent you only 17? well anyway if he lied and you know the truth just straight up tell him its happened to me so many times with the same guy and trust me he will keep lieing to you your young listen to ppl around you but i know how it is the best thing to do it just confront him [right][snapback]293776[/snapback][/right] 18. -------------------- |
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May 31, 2005 - 11:32 PM
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The 'Dont tell my girlfriend' part kills him. A guy thats able to tell ppl that is definately capable of doing other stuff....much worse other stuff
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Jun 2, 2005 - 3:56 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Sep 30, '02 From Washington Spokane / Coeur D' Alene Idaho Currently Offline Reputation: 11 (100%) |
so what happened???
This post has been edited by nik: Jun 2, 2005 - 3:57 PM -------------------- yea your 3sgte is cool but ill stick to my 7agte
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Jun 2, 2005 - 4:10 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Mar 23, '03 From New Orleans Currently Offline Reputation: 5 (100%) |
once you dont have trust then you really dont have a good relationship. This is why I will not lie to anyone I'm engaged w/. If I do or did something, guess what I did it so i'm not going to beat around the bush about it. I'm going to be straight forward.
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Jun 2, 2005 - 4:28 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Sep 18, '02 From Northern, Virginia Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
depends, if he said he would stop eating unhealthy food but keeps on sneaking out to baskin robins and mcdonalds and is getting a beer belly id dump him.
The lie in itself doesnt matter (everyone lies) but if its the same lie about the same thing or just continueous lying in general then you should confront him. |
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Jun 2, 2005 - 4:30 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Sep 18, '02 From Northern, Virginia Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
oh I also find being really nice to someone then getting them really really drunk throws them off guard and youll usually find out the truth.
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Jun 2, 2005 - 7:22 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Jun 30, '03 From O-town, FL Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
Wow a relationship with no trust. The sex must be great.
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Jun 2, 2005 - 8:57 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Jul 14, '03 From Jacksonville, FL Currently Offline Reputation: 2 (100%) |
QUOTE(Akimbo @ Jun 2, 2005 - 7:22 PM) Wow a relationship with no trust. The sex must be great. [right][snapback]294541[/snapback][/right] Wow, that's not advice. Asshole much..? -------------------- |
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Jun 2, 2005 - 11:15 PM
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QUOTE(coustoe @ Jun 2, 2005 - 9:30 PM) oh I also find being really nice to someone then getting them really really drunk throws them off guard and youll usually find out the truth. [right][snapback]294480[/snapback][/right] yes the truth usually comes out when a person is drunk. |
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Jun 3, 2005 - 11:16 AM
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^^^^^
It's the truth i've told one lie and got busted that way, but I don't like to lie anyways to much trouble to keep it up and I like drinking. Get him drunk and hit him with a lot of questions so he gets so confused that he slips, worked against me anyway. |
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Jun 3, 2005 - 11:26 AM
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So let me see if I have this straight, your boyfriend lied to you for god knows what reason, and it was big enough for you to not trust him. Why are you still with him? Dump the arogant ass and get someone you can trust. Don't beat around the bush just say I found out about so and so or about such and such (substitute what happened). See what he says and go from there.
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Jun 3, 2005 - 11:49 AM
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QUOTE(Jen @ May 31, 2005 - 4:21 PM) So, update. I went to talk to him today before a job interview at the mall. I decided to ask him more questions. He continued to lie. So, when he gets home (we live together now) I will definitely be, calmly, throwing the "evidence" in his face. We'll see where it goes from there. After this I can't trust him at all. [right][snapback]293756[/snapback][/right] u damn southerners are f**kin shot. lol ne way depends what he lied about. lies sometimes avoid fights... girls fight about anything even if its nothing .. sometimes u have to lie about lil things ur signifigant other is going to fight about. Holla peace 1 love be safe stay dry --------------------  |
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Jun 3, 2005 - 12:00 PM
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QUOTE(Jen @ Jun 2, 2005 - 7:57 PM) QUOTE(Akimbo @ Jun 2, 2005 - 7:22 PM) Wow a relationship with no trust. The sex must be great. [right][snapback]294541[/snapback][/right] Wow, that's not advice. Asshole much..? [right][snapback]294560[/snapback][/right] isnt his fault you sux0r at relationships -------------------- i am awesome
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Jun 3, 2005 - 12:05 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Nov 27, '03 Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
Down boy! DOWN!
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Jun 3, 2005 - 12:35 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Jul 14, '03 From Jacksonville, FL Currently Offline Reputation: 2 (100%) |
QUOTE(Andason @ Jun 3, 2005 - 12:00 PM) QUOTE(Jen @ Jun 2, 2005 - 7:57 PM) QUOTE(Akimbo @ Jun 2, 2005 - 7:22 PM) Wow a relationship with no trust. The sex must be great. [right][snapback]294541[/snapback][/right] Wow, that's not advice. Asshole much..? [right][snapback]294560[/snapback][/right] isnt his fault you sux0r at relationships [right][snapback]294795[/snapback][/right] <3. -------------------- |
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