Boy problems, Am i over reacting? Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

Ok so my boyfriend and I have been dating since mid may...He and I are both on myspace and he usually logged on about once a week where as Im on about 3 times a day. Well yesterday he gets on AIM and tells me to look at his profile cuz his "crazy b*tch ex" wrote him a comment. I look and it doesnt say anything bad...just something like "sup ya jerk bitch. i didn't know you had myspace. i saw chantel come in when i was working at hollister today, how weird is that? i almost stabbed her. with a hanger. no i really don't care, i just thought it was funny. is this natalie chick your gf?"

so thats nothing to really get upset by. Im just upset that she became his friend in the past two days...they dated two years ago and became a sorority coke wh*re. Well now he seems to be loggin on twice a day. and shes really pretty. So im kinda like WTF..why are you logging on twice a day now, why is she ur friend and also her friend is now on ur friend list too, and damn it shes hot and thats makes me go..if u dated her then why are you dating me?!

hes been very genuine and ive had no reasons to not trust him. Not once has a girl called while ive been with him. He spends all his time with his car or with his friend Nick and his girlfriend Ally. He went to a very nice expensive resteraunt on New Years Eve with them...ALONE! haha!

I know im just being insecure but its like Why the hell is she on ur friend list and why is her friend on ur friend list too...keep in mind he only has like 19 friends on there..so hes not like a guy who adds everyone!

[Jen]

I say you're overreacting a little bit.. but I can see why you're upset over this. So am I. Maybe he's just trying to be nice? And it's possible that he's logging in more now because MySpace is addicting.. and he's starting to become more involved with it? Honestly I think that you have nothing to worry about. Maybe you should at least talk to him calmly and tell him how you feel about it. Maybe his reassurance will help.

[Digndoug]

you just nuts.. I mean over reacting. My guess is he's being just nice.. Like for some odd reason my ex from a 1 1/2 ago called me out opf the blue said she was in town and wanted to see me. I didnt call her back for a few hours cause i was at work. but just to be nice and talked to her for a bit.

Id say dont worry about it.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

yeah we talked about it last night..he came up and we walked along the pier and then went to red robin and he came over and watched The Deadliest Catch (awesome reality show) and he was just telling me how he likes me so much and he wouldnt do anything to mess it up and i dont need to worry...

I just dont want anything to mess this up. :-(

This is the first relationship that feels genuine

[Jen]

yeah we talked about it last night..he came up and we walked along the pier and then went to red robin and he came over and watched The Deadliest Catch (awesome reality show) and he was just telling me how he likes me so much and he wouldnt do anything to mess it up and i dont need to worry...

I just dont want anything to mess this up. :-(

This is the first relationship that feels genuine
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I'm so happy for you. He sounds like a keeper.. don't worry about it too much<3.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

plus he looks like Jordan Knight (the girls will probably know who im talking about and why thats a good thing) ;-)

[SlowCelica94]

When girlfriends are demanding as to whom I talk to and who I don't, I usually consider giving them the boot. But that's me.

Most guys like to think their gf will trust them. I would just keep in eye on it in private, and shrug it off till it appear to be a problem.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

Well if he starts talking to her on the phone or hanging with her then F that im done!!


but it seems to me that on her profile she looks to have a b/f and on that guys profile it seems that shes his g/f

[ILuvMyCelica95]

Yeah Nat your defiantly overreacting. I drive my ex to work with me every day, and my ex of 2 ½ years called me the other week when he was home, of course I didn’t answer, but he still called. I actually keep in touch with a few of my ex’s. It’s not like we are in High School anymore and there is no reason for drama and stuff, we are all mature about it, things happen people don’t work out and that’s no reason to stop talking to someone. Idk that’s my opinion.

I think if you confront him about it you might push him away.

Ha ha Jordan Knight- now I have “the right stuff” ( is that the name of that song?) in my head Ahhh make it go away!!

[BlackCelicaGT94]

"hanging tough" hehe that was a goody!!


he knows i worry too much! :-)

i know im over reacting..but i just dont wanna get hurt...i hate being hurt and emotionally/mentally go thru being a hurt again

[1900WattCelica]

Hey can we have a link to his myspace? And to his crack whore ex's myspace?

[DaMnItLeWiS]

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Its only been a month, you cant base someones trust of a relationship thats only a month old, even IF you knew him before that. Once people get in a relationship everything changes comapred to when they were friends...even trust.

yeah we talked about it last night..he came up and we walked along the pier and then went to red robin

Red Robins! WooHoo!! i love it there. Best food ever!

[BlackCelicaGT94]

HIM



HER


:-(

[ILuvMyCelica95]

You know Nat I was thinking about this, and I can go both ways. I mean you have like 100 myspace guys humping your leg and telling you how hot you are, so maybe that gets him thinking the way you are.

I think you should just be happy you have someone, and stop worrying because he’s with YOU and not her!

[dustin15brown]

^ I concur, but she's very attractive. and just be happy chicka

[red94celicagt]

daaaang nat shes hot id watch out

J/K...

Nat ur overreactin dont worry about it...Id be jealous as well buit as long as shes taken and theyre not hangin out with eachother more than you get to hang with him I wouldnt worry

[amysmojo]

Step by Step! Oooh baby Jordan knight was my favorite mmm. But daaamn that boy has let himself go over the years!

Natalie I bet you anything that girl knows nothing about cars. So...thats 1 million plus points for you! Plus like I said you are GORGEOUS! When I hang out w/ you all da boys jaws drop to the floor & just about hump ur leg. Soo..quit worrying your pretty little self to pieces, your gonna get a wrinkle from all this stress

Oh oh oh & guys leave their number on ur celica alll the time! I have never had a guy leave me a phone #

[BlackCelicaGT94]

oh no she has an RX7 and is into cars

not as much as me but still................... :-(

now im craving this attention and getting clingy cuz of this and it sucks! i didnt worry untill this happened..i was like oh i know he will call but she shows up and i get all worried and thinking what is he doing he hasnt called for like 5 hours.hes probably with her


:-(

[ILuvMyCelica95]

Nat stop worrying!!!! Trust him, and if he breaks your trust I will fly out to Washington and custom make him some cement boots. why do you guys thing I don’t have pictures of my ex’s- duh that would be evidence hahahahahahaa

[coustoe]

oh no she has an RX7 and is into cars

not as much as me but still................... :-(

now im craving this attention and getting clingy cuz of this and it sucks! i didnt worry untill this happened..i was like oh i know he will call but she shows up and i get all worried and thinking what is he doing he hasnt called for like 5 hours.hes probably with her


:-(
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called in five hours? I usually only call my girl once in a 24 hour period, especially if im busy at work.