 Best way to dump someone?, without being an A** |
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 Jun 24, 2005 - 6:07 PM
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Jun 24, 2005 - 6:13 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Oct 12, '04 From Montgomery, AL Currently Offline Reputation: 1 (100%) |
tell them the truth don't butter it up nothing like that....just tell them it's not working out and that person is more of a friend then a girlfriend/boyfriend....w/e.....if they're cool they'll understand and still wanna hang out
 if not then they don't know what they lost
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Jun 24, 2005 - 6:15 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Jun 19, '05 From New York Currently Offline Reputation: 1 (100%) |
dont start with the famous.. we need to talk hahah thats the worstt.. but just talk one on one the best u can.. dont rush into it and dont try to piss them off eitherr
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Jun 24, 2005 - 7:04 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Jan 17, '04 From Illinois Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
cut it clean. do it gently but directly. do NOT say that you want to stay friends.
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Jun 24, 2005 - 7:12 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Mar 4, '03 From Kirkland, Washington Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
Ha you wanna keep in touch so u have a booty call!!!! hahaha! :-)
Just tell her straight up - This really isnt working and I dont see it working if we tried. -------------------- Cruisin down the street in my Infiniti...always lookin for my next trip to Sin City
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Jun 25, 2005 - 4:38 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Jan 30, '05 From Greencastle, PA Currently Offline Reputation: 9 (100%) |
Don't front.. just like she said ^^
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Jun 25, 2005 - 6:50 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Dec 21, '03 From Portland, OR Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
well, everyone said it best, straight up and truthful. Just don't say it in an ass way. Comfort her and tell her at the same time. Hard and somewhat contradictory, but possible and the best way. Don't sugar coat, don't let her talk you out of it if you have your mind made up, because if she talks you out of that, its that much harder on her and you over time. Just come over, take her somewhere you two can talk, and just say whats on your mind. Don't think too much into it, and don't plan the conversation or try to predict it, because its never the same as you imagine.
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Jun 25, 2005 - 6:58 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Mar 4, '03 From Kirkland, Washington Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
In the great words of the band NADA SURF
Three important rules for breaking up Don't put off breaking up when you know you want to Prolonging the situation only makes it worse Tell him honestly, simply, kindly, but firmly Don't make a big production Don't make up an elaborate story This will help you avoid a big tear jerking scene If you wanna date other people say so Be prepared for the boy to feel hurt and rejected Even if you've gone together for only a short time, And haven't been too serious, There's still a feeling of rejection When someone says she preferres the company of others To your exclusive company, But if you're honest, and direct, And avoid making a flowery emotional speech when you brake the news, The boy will respect you for your frankness, And honestly he'll apeciate the kind of straight foward manner In which you told him your decision Unless he's a real jerk or a cry baby you will remain friends (change fems to masculines) :-) -------------------- Cruisin down the street in my Infiniti...always lookin for my next trip to Sin City
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Jun 25, 2005 - 7:14 PM
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Jun 25, 2005 - 8:00 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Mar 31, '04 From Summerville, SC Currently Offline Reputation: 5 (100%) |
Without reading all the previous posts, here's some simple advice. Be nice, honest, and VERY firm.
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Jun 25, 2005 - 8:20 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Aug 17, '03 From Bloomington, Indiana Currently Offline Reputation: 62 (98%) |
yeah, thats tough to do... keep your cool when she gets emotional... dont give in because they're in pain..... it'll suck worse if u give in
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Jun 27, 2005 - 10:07 AM
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Jun 27, 2005 - 10:55 AM
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 Enthusiast Joined Dec 25, '02 From Pittsburgh/Clairton, PA Currently Offline Reputation: 1 (100%) |
Ah, no...i dont think you should stay in a relationship over guilt.
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Jun 27, 2005 - 6:05 PM
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Its not you....Its me. hahahaha works all the time. and do it over the phone, lol
im an ass but seriously just say that its not working out and that your not happy. you gotta be realistic This post has been edited by Jdog1385: Jun 27, 2005 - 6:06 PM |
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Jun 28, 2005 - 2:26 AM
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 Enthusiast Joined Aug 29, '02 From Franklin/Nashville, TN Currently Offline Reputation: 16 (100%) |
cheat on them. with their mother.
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Jun 28, 2005 - 7:25 AM
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its ok, you'll get to have break up sex.....maybe lol
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Jun 28, 2005 - 8:25 AM
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QUOTE(Mynzeyes @ Jun 28, 2005 - 7:26 AM) cheat on them. with their mother. [right][snapback]305879[/snapback][/right] word.. |
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Jun 28, 2005 - 5:19 PM
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QUOTE(DamDirtyApes @ Jun 28, 2005 - 8:25 AM) QUOTE(Mynzeyes @ Jun 28, 2005 - 7:26 AM) cheat on them. with their mother. [right][snapback]305879[/snapback][/right] word.. [right][snapback]305935[/snapback][/right] I agree |
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