Who still tripps over their first Gf/Bf? Options

[saleeka]

The other night some friends and I went out to a club and I ran into my first BF, as usual it seems... Its been four years now, and e have no hard feelings, are still friendly to one another, and we both know it will never work- but it seems I/we just cant help but end up caring about one another in odd ways... he's been known to invite me to parties or other stuff, and the other night I got outrageously jealous that one of my friends was dancing with him- totaly non sexual... its weird! All my guy friends say that they all still have some type of feelings for their first serious relationship as well, but most of the girls seems to disagree... So do any of you have similar feelings/experences like this?

[FoREpLayAX]

guilty

[ILuvMyCelica95]

^ sigh, me too

he turned out to be a real ass hole too.

[acenova]

Unfortunately, since my first gf serious was kinda a nut, I don't. I mean obviously, I care about her to the extent of I don't want anything bad to happen, but I don't think about her, or talk to her. Although, seeing as how she was my first, and we only did it once, and it wasn't that great. I wonder what it would be like to go back and just sleep with her one more time. But thats kinda an asshole thought, and just a thought at that.

[crazycel18]

Guilty still get the thought of what if it had worked out with the first g/f

[dustin15brown]

nah, i used to, but found somethin wayyy better and a lot more worth it.

[95gtschick]

we were together well over 5 years ago, i still think about him a lot, but not in the "relationship" way. he moved away back then and we never really "broke" up, so i often wonder how he's doing, or what he's up to, and how his life has turned out... but never think of wanting to get back together.

[boosted_K2]

i tripped over my first girlfriend last night... it hurt my toe.

[urbandork]

i tripped over my first girlfriend last night... it hurt my toe.
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lol ahaha that was a good one.

[Digndoug]

I think about her, and somtimes miss her. but now its been awhile i dont worry about. She kinda messed me up when it comes to girls now.. but what ever. All Women are crazy.

[mark_426]

Not my first one, but other serious ones I've had in the past...

[OrbitalGT95]

...I'd do anything to have her back...makes me feel like **** to think someone could have this much impact on me...I keep praying someday we might get back together...and I know I'm only hurting myself...yet I dont care.....
-Jack

[Scarrell]

im guilty... i was with this chick for 2 years and she cheated on me, and we got back together(after alot of fighting and crap) and well it was just fighting everyday and stuff like that, so we were off and on off and on..etc.. and i slit both of my wrists pretty deep but was taken care of by friends' parents that were nurses little bit after doing so(wasnt even worth it, so dont think about doing it.. if you do, atleast suceed in killing yourself), anyway we got back together Again and she left me for a guy she was dating before and that pretty much just ended it for me, i told her that it wouldnt ever really work, maybe when we got much older and things like that... i dont really talk to her much or think about her that often but i still care for her and all... she was the only girl i really loved. but i am not sure i can say that now.. i love her as a friend but i dont think i love her a girlfriend.. some of you know what i mean i hope.... things are still messed up between us when we talk... best thing to do guys/gals... dont talk to em, call em.. or anything..

[gt_driFFter]

Me and my g/f of 9 months just broke up. Our mistake was spending too much time for eachother/ not enough for our friends. Spending everyday with her for 9 months straight and then breaking up and a week later seeing her crushin on someone 6 years older than her has been the hardest thing I've ever had to do, bar none. EVERY memory that I had of my senior year, she was in. My first and only prom, my first and only homecoming, and sooo many other firsts. I have never been at a lower point in my entire life. I'm lost. I just wander around trying to find things to take my mind off her but it never works. EVERY song, EVERY restaurant, EVERY store, EVERY movie reminds me off her and it kills me. I would give anything to be happy again, but I don't think that's gonna happen for a while.

-Josh