I'm Upset, About A Girl Options

[Celica_Fan]

about 2 weeks ago I met a girl aged 16 on msn messenger we got to know each other and than she asked me out and she told me she loved me she also called me and told me that too. Yesterday we went out we talked she lives 43 kilometres away and than we kissed for ages than she had to go I had a great time. She seemed like she did too she held my hand told me she loved me and kissed and hugged. Then today I get an email that says that we cant go out because she is not over her ex who she broke up with almost a month ago. I'm deeply hurt this was my first girlfriend and I feel used she must have just enjoyed the kissing. I went all that way and wasted all that petrol to be told that the next day i'm so upset she even told me that she loved me. I hate her. anyway I just wanted to let it all out. And on her profile she changed it so it says single and she used to say she loved her new boyfriend (me) she changed that too. I will try my best to get over her.

This post has been edited by Celica_Fan: Oct 18, 2005 - 4:23 PM

[soulshadow]

If its just an e-mail don't be fooled! It could be the works of her boyfriend, brother or someone who just don't like you going out with her! Don't give up yet!

PlZ don't have hope!! <------ the story of pandoras box------>
(although all evil was released into the world there was a tiny blah blah blah hope in the box and more blah) The point is if you have hope its the most miserable thing that will happen to you in the end if things don't go right. HOPE IS MORE MISERABLE THAN MISERY ITSELF!


She might still dig you call, her up and ask if she meant what she really wanted to say what she typed. IF she says what?? Then ask her it was nothing and see if she wants to go on a date this friday night.

[Celica_Fan]

it was her email address honestly shes a complete bitch.

[Celica_Fan]

I already emailed her to tell her what I think about her for treating me the way she has I can't do anything now

[Digndoug]

Dude.. saying you love someone after a little bit of time.. its ni\ot love, its puppy love.. you'll get over it, it sucks, but you'll get over it.

One phrase you should keep in your head. "Treat a girl like dirt, she'll stick to you like mud"
Its not the whole point of treating girls like dirt, its more of the fact dont fall in love, or liek someone that quick. Women are nuts, you'll learn over and over they dont know what they want, and never will. They will **** you over time and time. Just date.. have fun, and..

Next girl that says she loves you that quick.. run..

[Celica_Fan]

she even went in the back of my mirage and grass went all over the carpet from her shoes I had to vacuum out the car again. I will run the next time a girl says that to me.

[forkee]

damn that sucks to be the rebound. that was pretty far. did u at least get any?

[Celica_Fan]

nope that part sucked most chicks in new zealand are mostly sluts wanting sex all the nice good ones are gone:(

[Celica_Fan]

she should know that an ex is the past not the present or the future why go back on something in the past when you can have someone new in your life.

[tin_foil]

Dude, I'm sorry to hear that, but be realist, that was sort of stupid on your part. Any girl who "fell for me" that fast, a would seriously wonder about her emotional(and mental) stability. There's no such thing as true love at first sight. Its sucks that someone used you that bad, but it won't be that hard to "get over" her. She was 16 for gods sake. I don't know how old you are, but a lot of girls that age are emotional bungies. Just forget about the whole thing.

[ILuvMyCelica95]

yeah saying you love someone after that little ammount of time, and at such a young age is just a red flag.


of course it sucks, but you'll be okay.

and i know how bad it sucks to not find someone and all that being alone ****, but after a while it's not that bad really esp cause you don't have to deal with all the crap that comes with relationships, more time for the car too.

[celicagurl152003]

i agree with what they all say...except for the all women are nuts part.....

[ILuvMyCelica95]

nah Christina we are, I've come to admit it, but i've also given up on men so idk. haha

[celicaST]

about 2 weeks ago I met a girl aged 16 on msn messenger we got to know each other and than she asked me out and she told me she loved me she also called me and told me that too. Yesterday we went out we talked she lives 43 kilometres away and than we kissed for ages than she had to go I had a great time. She seemed like she did too she held my hand told me she loved me and kissed and hugged. Then today I get an email that says that we cant go out because she is not over her ex who she broke up with almost a month ago. I'm deeply hurt this was my first girlfriend and I feel used she must have just enjoyed the kissing. I went all that way and wasted all that petrol to be told that the next day i'm so upset she even told me that she loved me. I hate her. anyway I just wanted to let it all out. And on her profile she changed it so it says single and she used to say she loved her new boyfriend (me) she changed that too. I will try my best to get over her.  
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hey, wow, first off what were you thinking about meeting a girl online? honestly think that she was a gf? what ever happened to old fashioned meeting people face to face. if you have trouble meeting girls, practice! for some its natural, but most are going to have growing pains learning how to. dont hate her, you set yourself up for that. just remember dating is a numbers game. again, as i tell everybody, its all about having fun in the beginning. she obviously has no sense of her emotions, and frankly niether do you. no problem though, just move on and learn from it, thats all you can do, because only fools repeat their mistakes. if you dont start learning now, youll be the same way in a decade, isnt that scary? and dear god, get off of IM or any other of that online dating BS, youll thank yourself. good luck

[Celica_Fan]

I just found out she wrote that message 40 mins after I left from where she lives what a user. I think I should go out with a girl my own age she was turning 17 in March and I am 19 I think I should date a 19 yo more mature and less bulls**t I have learn't from my mistake. Also I want a girl that lives closer plus that chick that used me didn't like celicas very much and she didn't like the 5th generation one either she said it was ugly She doesn't have a car and a GT4 is better than her anyday.

[95gtschick]

it was over... before it even started

[Consynx]

she's 16. . .
that's like Junior-ish in HS
i'd only trust a senior in High School, and even then ehhh.

just see it as her being a retard, and now knowing what she wants...
sounds like she just wants eh uh eh uh

[BlackCelicaGT94]

Hun just cuz you date a 19 year old that doesnt make it any better than dating a 16/17 year old sometimes. All girls are crazy - just deal with it!

plus youre 19 - too young for a girlfriend. go play the field and do what she did to you. :-)

and you will forget her the second another one comes along. :-) Keep your chin up! and i bet you ill even be saying "wtf was i thinking. she wasnt even that cute" as soon as you meet the next ;-)

[Celica_Fan]

She wasn't even cute she was hidious I don't know what I saw in her. She even played monopoly in the park and she was real random.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

well see ur already over it :-P

u live in the land down under and i hear you guys have BEAUTIFUL girls there! so go get em tiger