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 Jan 3, 2006 - 9:59 PM
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Guys i need your prayers, pray for my kid's mom. She needs all the help she can get from God as well as professional. I live on my own with my 2 year old little girl and the mother has turned to alcohol, sex and partys. Since Christmas she has maybe spent 5 minutes with her daughter. At the rate she is going she is going to end up killed. She lives with her grandmother and she fights with her b/c she is coming home at 7 in the morning drunk. all i can do is pray. the last thing i want is another major custody battle, those thing cost thousands of dollars and i would appreciate it very much if you can just pray for my family when ever u can. thanx guys and God bless.
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Jan 3, 2006 - 10:11 PM
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You can do a helluva lot more than pray.
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Jan 3, 2006 - 10:23 PM
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I will pray for you and your family. Protect your little one.
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Jan 3, 2006 - 10:55 PM
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Well I'm not a religious person, but non the less, I thoughts go out to you and yours, Best of luck, and remember its never to late to just sit down and talk with her, try to convinser her the risks or that behaviour, whats best for thoes involved, and that its affecting others beyond herself.
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Jan 4, 2006 - 1:03 PM
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we have talked to her, me, her mom, grandmother. but she is in denial. u cant help someone until they admit they need help. all i think i can do is try to take full custody. im just hoping it dosent come down to that.
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Jan 4, 2006 - 1:09 PM
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good luck bro and i hope everything works out for hte best of your daughter you don't see too many single fathers!
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Jan 4, 2006 - 3:23 PM
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how old is the mom?.... if its the early 20s then its pretty tipical age for girls to go crazy. its sad tho that you guys have a little girl and she feels no responsibitly for her.
i once dated a girl who later told me she had a son with another guy that she gave up for adoption. she told me her reasons for doing it, but you could kind of tell she only gave him up so that she couldn continue on driking and partying every night. -------------------- 15PSI - 30MPG - Megasquirt Tuned
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Jan 4, 2006 - 4:23 PM
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QUOTE(lake1069 @ Jan 4, 2006 - 1:03 PM) [snapback]374485[/snapback] we have talked to her, me, her mom, grandmother. but she is in denial. u cant help someone until they admit they need help. all i think i can do is try to take full custody. im just hoping it dosent come down to that. I would fight for full custody if i where you. Especially while she is currently acting the way she is, because if you don't she can turn around and try to take her from you. This is just my legal perspective on things. I'll elaborate more when i have time. -------------------- Buy my Celica $2,500 - http://www.6gc.net/forums/index.php?showtopic=76562&st=0
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Jan 4, 2006 - 8:41 PM
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well im 18 the mother is 17 about to be 18.i dont think she could take her from me even if she wanted to. i do nothin but be the best dad i can, take care of her and provide for her. and to be honest i dont think i can ever forgive her for this. i dont have any respect for people like this and hate it came down to this because i know my kid needs a mom.
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Jan 6, 2006 - 8:47 PM
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I will pray for her... God can do all things :-)
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Jan 7, 2006 - 1:01 AM
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Im sorry but, praying is not gonna help cause god is a human after all. And we know how lazy humans are.
You will just have to take matters into your own hands and tape her doing all the unwanted stuff, so that you can prove to the judge once and for all that she is an crack head! |
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Jan 7, 2006 - 2:04 AM
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QUOTE(soulshadow @ Jan 7, 2006 - 1:01 AM) [snapback]375487[/snapback] Im sorry but, praying is not gonna help cause god is a human after all. And we know how lazy humans are. You will just have to take matters into your own hands and tape her doing all the unwanted stuff, so that you can prove to the judge once and for all that she is an crack head! you have issues.... and praying does help...and umm god isn't human...god is god jesus was human..and the one and only perfect human..... good luck brother...and i hope you get full custody |
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Jan 7, 2006 - 2:17 AM
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I will pray!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Jan 7, 2006 - 2:45 AM
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QUOTE(lake1069 @ Jan 4, 2006 - 8:41 PM) [snapback]374619[/snapback] well im 18 the mother is 17 about to be 18.i dont think she could take her from me even if she wanted to. i do nothin but be the best dad i can, take care of her and provide for her. and to be honest i dont think i can ever forgive her for this. i dont have any respect for people like this and hate it came down to this because i know my kid needs a mom. I'm sure you have heard this before, but you were/are way too young to have a child. She is obviously abandoning her responsibilities as a mother, and it is admirable that you are there for your child when the mother is off f-cking around. Honestly, this looks more like a drug problem. I think there's more to it than just alcohol. Best wishes to you. I hope she gets the help she needs and is able to care for her child the appropriate way. AND PLEASE GUYS, LET'S NOT HAVE A RELIGIOUS BATTLE! This post has been edited by Jen: Jan 7, 2006 - 2:45 AM -------------------- |
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Jan 7, 2006 - 5:43 AM
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QUOTE(playr158 @ Jan 7, 2006 - 6:04 PM) [snapback]375529[/snapback] QUOTE(soulshadow @ Jan 7, 2006 - 1:01 AM) [snapback]375487[/snapback] Im sorry but, praying is not gonna help cause god is a human after all. And we know how lazy humans are. You will just have to take matters into your own hands and tape her doing all the unwanted stuff, so that you can prove to the judge once and for all that she is an crack head! you have issues.... and praying does help...and umm god isn't human...god is god jesus was human..and the one and only perfect human..... good luck brother...and i hope you get full custody Dan & Daniel 
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