Depressed Options

[Supersprynt]

This is why I went into psychology and not psychiatry. I believe in the power of the mind and I think people underestimate how powerful it really is.

[celiracer]

Hey Nat, Just hang in there, Everythings going to be ok. Not all guys/boys are bad, And everything will be ok. Your car will get fixed and looking good as always , Just keep doing them things that make you happy, and keep your head up don't do anything stupid. You'll be ok. I've had them same thoughts also. And i just held in there and kept my head up. Hope for the best of ya.

[creis]

Everyone has up's and downs, its just life, blame hormons, society, family, or all of the above.

from what I know about you, you have a decent job, a cool car, and a good social life, you just gata realise what you got going for you even if you cant see it all the time.

side note: at least your not a total restart with the opposite sex like I am, and you do have "boys" in your life, I have a 100% failure rate with girls, so dont feel bad. "better to have and lose then never to have had at all."

and pills are not the anser, I know this weither sux big time but it will pass eventualy despite what the news says.

[lil_lissa]

aww no worries hun, i have felt this way for the past 6 months (since i broke up with my ex and then he got a g/f). i've been royally ****ed up but just never get over it. I just try to go out with friends and i just completely throw myself into work and stuff to keep my mind off things. i'll occassionally just break down sometimes and it freaks me out, but meh.. what can ya do. i never wanna go to the doc to get meds or anything, or a therapist, i just feel like i should be able to deal with it on my own..

ive battled it for a long time though, even before this, its just me i guess.. haha oh well!

[johnsonius_87]

It'll all be okay. I keep telling myself that too. Over this past weekend I saw my ex bf- we've been broke up 2 months & I havent seen him since. He left today to go to boot camp. I was up til 3 am talking to him- he was begging me for one more chance- just one more chance is all he wants. He knows he was a jerk in the past & should have his butt kicked, but he'd do anything for me & whatever it takes to get back with me. He said if it took puttin a ring on my finger- he'd do it. He was crying & just beggin me for just one more chance, but I couldnt give it to him- I care about someone else now, who at the moment I cant be with. So now I really feel like crap! He said he knows I'm the one for him & that he's not gonna date anyone else. I told him I want him to be happy & he said he wont be happy til the day I call him & say I want him back. I just trust that God has a plan & I try not to let stuff get to me- a whole lot easier said than done tho

[BlackCelicaGT94]

yeah i try to keep myself busy but its hard cuz on weekdays im too tired to really go out cuz id have to take another shower and get ready but then i gotta be home by 10ish so that i am fully rested for work the next day. I however have gone to the gym twice a day for the past 3 days and its made a difference in my mood - im on steroids for the next week though to help with my cough so it gets me really ancy and what not, hopefully it wont make me irritable.



im glad im not the only one - well im not glad other people feel this way but im glad there are some people i can relate to

[creis]

im on steroids

wow you must have a bad docter, ti prescribe steroids.

may wana get a 2nd opinion

[BlackCelicaGT94]

no steroids are often perscribed for a cough. They dont like to have people taking antibiotics cuz u can develope such an immunity to them! its a low dose and nothing like what body builders take. but im not taking them anymore cuz i got too bad of a headache! id rather have the cough than a headache and a cough

[BlackCelicaGT94]

why is it that when you say "fine. F it im not trying for that person anymore" and you stop calling them and you pretty much delete them out of ur life then they call you again and wanna talk! blah!

[TheStreetzKing]

what i tell u about that shyt haha stopp itt and cheer up

[ILuvMyCelica95]

omfg- Nat- you are not depressed- you're just a girl- let it go.

if you *think* you're depressed then you're not depressed

you're just sad at some of the things in your life.

if you would like me to elaborate on what depression is REALLY like I will be glad to do so.

and I was going to say this VIA a PM but i thought you might take that as me attacking you, and i'm not.

this thread offends me. the end.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

no im not taking it as attacking but i have seen my brother who is very depressed and has anorexia with his depression and alot of things my family has not shared with me and i know im nothing like his considering ive never tried to kill myself like he has! but i think mines a bit more than just girl problems granted alot of them are but they hit me a lot harder than my other girl friends. but im not saying mine is more serious than anyone elses!

This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Jan 18, 2006 - 12:47 PM

[ILuvMyCelica95]

I know- i'm just saying.

People take things differently then other people do. You'll be fine, chillax.

[ILuvMyCelica95]

yeaaaah my internet sucks

This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: Jan 18, 2006 - 1:04 PM

[creis]

As someone who has gone though far worse then you, trust me, your not clinicly depressed, your just upset with the way things are going, and since you have seen how your brother is, your probably more worried about it then you should be. And i'm sure your friends have equaly bad things in there life too, so you should see how they react to em, and realize that just because something bad happens does not mean you life is over. there is always something to be happy about.

[ILuvMyCelica95]

^ and that's what i'm saying

[lagos]

omfg- Nat- you are not depressed- you're just a girl- let it go.

if you *think* you're depressed then you're not depressed

you're just sad at some of the things in your life.

if you would like me to elaborate on what depression is REALLY like I will be glad to do so.

and I was going to say this VIA a PM but i thought you might take that as me attacking you, and i'm not.

this thread offends me. the end.

i agree 100%

go shopping, youll be cured.

[macavely]

Nat eat a bannan a mango and a kiwi.... then have a cup of ice cold water with lots of ice in it.. once your don drinking the water take one if the ice cubes... an rub it on your nipples ( really this works stop giving the screen dirty looks) ... then go for a walk (no matter what the weather is ) and think about this... if Japan never started improving on all the ideas Ford and GM had for cars you would be driving a Ford Dipstick right now .... then sit down next to some really hot girl and ask her this question ... do monkey have big dicks ? .... don't wait for an answer .. make a phone call to a friend.. (not your best friend just a friend) and ask them what color their paints are.. if they say blue .. slap your ass and go for a drive .. after the drive get on your computer and post on here how you are feeling .. and if your not feeling any better.. i'll send you a plan ticket to NY so you can speen the weekend here...

[lil_lissa]

why is it that when you say "fine. F it im not trying for that person anymore" and you stop calling them and you pretty much delete them out of ur life then they call you again and wanna talk! blah!

I KNOW!!!!!
and i hate when they do that
but you just gotta stick in your "f u" mindset, and you'll be fine..
i cut my ASSHOLE off right before christmas and haven't spoken to him since... i'm doing well i think