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[Valo666]

I made up my mind

This post has been edited by Valo666: Apr 2, 2006 - 8:52 PM

[BlackCelicaGT94]

arent u going to france with ur girlfriend like soon? ummm im a bit confused! why would u tell ur friend that when u have a gf???

[Akimbo]

Long story short, yes. Did it end well? We're trying, but it's hard to maintain a friendship. We're way off from where we started though.

[Valo666]

way off from where you started..meaning..you guys are relationship? thinkin of one? every thing got messed up when you told her and your tryin 2 rebuild things??

[afroman]

also making a long story short, yes tried it, havnet talked to her in 2 years. it made things way to weird and it affected other relationships.
-Aaron-

[lagos]

do NOT tell her how you feel. i was in the same place as you, and everything got ****ed up because of it.

once you become friends with a girl, all your chances go out the window. if you say anything, you will end up looking like a fool, mess things up with your friend and loose your current girlfriend at the same time.

i havent talked to her in almost a year

This post has been edited by lagos: Mar 30, 2006 - 8:27 PM

[devilsden97]

tell the girl how u feel. I was in the same perdicamint u were in, I told the special girl about a week ago, how i felt. Long story short, she responded with "awww you have a crush." She crushed my heart, but i still care about her a lot, and u cant keep those feelings bottled up inside, they'll just tear u apart.

if you 2 are really close friends, it wont change a thing.

This post has been edited by devilsden97: Mar 30, 2006 - 8:33 PM

[yyet]

I think if you guys are that good of friends (like sponge bob and patrick type) then if you tell her then I think it would be okay. I dunno about letting your girl find out you told her that. Then and then ... Goodluck

Yet

[Valo666]

ok..well..if i do tell her, im gonna tell her b4 i move. And regarding the current gf, we have decided that its gonna b best if we break up when i move.

And yes, me and Mel are like "sponge bob and partick". lol..weirdest simaly ive used. but any ways yea we r close. I used to drive her 2 work every day for a year when we worked close by, she came to me every time she met some guy so i would give her my opinion. I was there every time she broke up with a guy to make sure she was alright. I acutally got into a physical fight that landed a guy in jail for her. This guy was abusing her and threatened to kill her if she ever left him. I took her 2 this guys place when she went to break up with him. She told him, he went to punch her, i stopped him, he tryed to punch me, i faught back in self defence. All in all, the guy got put into jail for a year for assault. He was released 2 months ago on parole. Like ive put my self in physical danger for her. This is how much i care about this girl.

[yyet]

Go for it then. I wish you luck. Maybe if you're really lucky she will be like..."Stay here for me, I loved you for all this time too." Hopefully. Goodluck

Yet

[Akimbo]

It made things bad. I loved dating her...but the akwardness we have now sucks more than anything ever, especially considering I still have feelings for her. I just wouldn't do it over again. I already lost her once.

[lagos]

just know... that there is no way she will say, "yes, i feel the same way. lets get together"

its too late for you. she thinks of you like a brother or a gay friend. girls dont want a guy who will always be there for them and treat them right. they want something new and exciting.

[Valo666]

^ you say she wouldnt want some one whos gonna b there for her and treat them right..this girl has been through absuive relationships, shez been used alot, shez dated the worst guys in the world. like the only decent guy shez been with is my friend, who she is with right now. He treats her pretty good but is using her for sex pretty much.

[lil_lissa]

the only person that can determine whether or not this is a good idea is you. i've been in situations like this, sometimes it works for the better, other times it doesn't... my most recent situation was with one of my ex's that i broke up with a long time ago.. like... 10 months ago... and he's with someone else, btu i just wanted to tell him i still like/love him so badly, and then you just realize its not worth the heart ache...

i woudln't tell her.

[CelicaZR]

Valo, after reading that.
I've to agree with Art.
If I was in that situation I would probably be like you,
and want to tell her how I feel.
But life is not like the movies you watch.
If you go through with this you'll be risking your friendship with her,
your best friend and your girlfriend.
That is 3 friendship in one go.
The chances of her moving with you is also very slim.
I would let it be.

[johnsonius_87]

i was good friends with a guy i work with & i liked him before he was with his current gf. he helped me out when i went through a bad relationship & i still care about him. Another friend from work told him I liked him, & it turned out he kinda liked me too, but he wasnt gonna mess things up with his gf. we tried hangin out still, but its just too weird & hes afraid if we hang out hell end up messin things up w her. so now we dont talk much anymore & it sucks bc we work together, so its always akward @ wrk.
if u tell her ull run the risk of her wanting to stay w ur friend & then neither of them talking to you. then again, things could turn out different for you. good luck.

[bloodrain]

if you want her back, you WONT tell her. Just be there for her, wait for her to break up with her current bf, and start hanging out with her. Your guarenteed to get back in, but if you just come out and say "hey i love you" shes gonna be like awwww i love you 2 but not in the way u want it. And now 1) you feel like an idiot and 2) she KNOWS what you meant by it, I dont know how but they do, and now things will be weird between u 2.

[Consynx]

france huh?
do that "2 on 1" in french deal, lol

yea, don't tell her.
in this case u gotta make her come to you

[OrbitalGT95]

france huh?
do that "2 on 1" in french deal, lol

yea, don't tell her.
in this case u gotta make her come to you

ur all about them coming to you, lol..steveyyyyy

[ILuvMyCelica95]

yes and i never said anything