Kinda off topic, personal problem., wife mad at me. Options

[celicak]

ok ok ok so here's the deal and no it's not that i bought anything for my car so she's mad at me. it's because i did something stupid and forgot about it. ie she pissed me off so i changed around my, myspace profile and took her completely out of it (oops and kinda childish) but anyway i'm in the dog house it did and lets just say due to the fact that my wife is kinda a drama queen (she should be on days of our lives). it's a HUGE deal so i need some ideas to patch things up besides just the same old get her flowers thing. any suggestions?

This post has been edited by celicak: Jun 16, 2006 - 3:37 PM

[Culpable04]

first of all I think this would suit better on the off topic section.

second I don't know I'm pretty bad resolving problems in my relation ship ( that's why I avoid any lil problem from happening ) but think about this if you are married it's because you can understand each other and have something in common so put those two things together and you'll come with something to get yourself out of the dog house.

Good luck.

This post has been edited by Culpable04: Jun 16, 2006 - 1:47 PM

[Jen]

Honestly, I used to get angry when my ex-fiance would buy expensive things for his car. We were in such a bad money situation though that I didn't think it was practical.

If that is the situation as well, return it willingly and say that you are sorry.

EDIT: I think I read your situation wrong due to the fact that your paragraph barely has any punctuation. So, what did you do?

This post has been edited by Jen: Jun 16, 2006 - 2:06 PM

[ILuvMyCelica95]

I disagree Jen. You shouldnt have to return something you bought because someone throws a hissy fit.

[shin]

well you guys should just talk about it, apologize since you know you're at fault and let her understand how much you wanted the expensive part ya bought. talking things out have always helped between me and my wife.

[95gtschick]

I disagree Jen. You shouldnt have to return something you bought because someone throws a hissy fit.

very true...only if it's completely unnecessary and like 4,000 and was bought on impulse

[celicak]

Honestly, I used to get angry when my ex-fiance would buy expensive things for his car. We were in such a bad money situation though that I didn't think it was practical.

If that is the situation as well, return it willingly and say that you are sorry.

EDIT: I think I read your situation wrong due to the fact that your paragraph barely has any punctuation. So, what did you do?

you know what don't judge me because i don't like to punctuate! lol j/k i know i don't punctuate but it's just SOOO much work and i hate typing. haha. anyway i edited the post so it hopefully makes more sense now please let me know.

[shin]

second thing you could do is always get something she likes to make her feel alil better then still talk things out lol..

This post has been edited by shin: Jun 16, 2006 - 3:45 PM

[celicak]

CRAP so what you're saying is theres absolutely NO way to fix this without talking? MAAAAAAN...lol j/k.

[Mynzeyes]

CRAP so what you're saying is theres absolutely NO way to fix this without talking? MAAAAAAN...lol j/k.

...yeah...damn talking...that always messes up relationships. it's still not clear what exactly you did. it would help a lot to know what it is, so people can know what direction to go.

[celicak]

i put down "in a relationship" on my Myspace account and deleted all my messages and crap.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

ok wait - so you didnt buy something right? she did something and pissed you off so you changed yoru myspace? umm you guys need to communicate better thats all.

This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Jun 16, 2006 - 4:37 PM

[Mynzeyes]

i put down "in a relationship" on my Myspace account and deleted all my messages and crap.

all the comments on your page? and 'in a relationship' instead of 'married'? dude, this is why MySpace is the devil. she needs to chill, bc you are 'in a relationship'. it's not like you said you were single.

but honestly, what were your intentions on doing this? just tell her you had a lapse in judgement, and were just going for a change or something, and all the comments were overloaded, so you wanted them gone, and to start new. and the status thing, at least you didn't put 'single' or 'divorced'. that would have been a lot worse. all and all, it's just a website. just change it back, tell her you're sorry, and that it won't happen again.

i wish i had a better way to explain that, but i don't know why you'd change it in the first place...

-John-

[bloodrain]

simple solution, delete myspace, you will thank me in 3 years...

[Culpable04]

wow ! my space ?
I guess she's reallly sensitive, well it's your wife so you should know her or at least learn from this ono.
what you did it wasn't the best thing but I can understand why she got mad, what I don't understand is why she got soooo mad.
I think if you delete your account and add the regular formula ( roses, I'm sorry, silly face and nice dinner) you should be ok

[celicak]

wow ! my space ?
I guess she's reallly sensitive, well it's your wife so you should know her or at least learn from this ono.
what you did it wasn't the best thing but I can understand why she got mad, what I don't understand is why she got soooo mad.
I think if you delete your account and add the regular formula ( roses, I'm sorry, silly face and nice dinner) you should be ok

probably the best solution good call

[m0dd3d1]

it's myspace!! oh please, my fiance was pissed b/c i have other chicks on my myspace, let alone b/c at the beguinning of our relatinoship it still said 'single'. overreaction is a curse! lol. honestly, if it's worth fixin', tell her how you feel and that obviously your mindset was different; you were upset. s'all good.