Celi Vs. Celi (My gf and my car!) Options

[tranthecelicaman]

Ok so my girlfriend Celi is taking all my time away from my other Celi..hehe the celica
ive got like nothing done to my car lately cuz i have to do everything with Celi
i see her every single day, and i work..so i have no timew for my car then
she gets mad at me if i want to spen one day working on my car
she made me delete my myspace cuz i was talking to girls...girls that are just friends!
i just ended up making a new one a few days ago but im just adding people with .into celicas cuz thats mostly what i used myspace for b4 anyways, but she didnt believe me.
we have been together for 5 YEARS! so i definitely dont wanna flush 5 years of my life down the drain
BUT NOW!!! SHE SAYS SHE WILL BREAK UP WITH ME OF I DONT TAKE HER TO THE CELICA MEET!
omggg, she gunna be a bitch and want my attention 98% of the time, but the onyl reson i cwould be theere is for the cars and to hang out with some friends i havnt seen in a few years!!!!
ahhhhhhhhhhhhh im ready to explode idk what the F*CK to do!!!!!!!
HELP!!!

This post has been edited by tranthecelicaman: Jul 18, 2006 - 2:37 AM

[Jen]

your girlfriend's name is.. Celi?

[purplegt4]

err uhhh...i say...uhh WOT THAT B!TCH! see what she says after that.

[tranthecelicaman]

yes my girfriend name is Celi...well really Cecelia...but since the day i met her ive called her Celi

[Jen]

sounds like she just has a bit of an insecurity problem.

[tranthecelicaman]

i just dont knwo what to do, i love this girl , ive been with her 5 years..but i want one time for myself with my boys...cant i have like onew wek tomyself???? sighhhh

[Jen]

well, don't break up with her - she just loves you, and is worried that she may lose you
always reassure her, ask her for some space, and that there's nothing going on, you just need a bit of space
honestly, you should take her to the celica meet (which is it, btw? i see youre in fl) and show her that it is nothing to be worried about, maybe she'll see
she kind of reminds me of how i was in my last relationship
fcked me over, then again the guy i was with didnt cooperate at all

[tranthecelicaman]

see thats the thing, the meet is in cali
im going just to be with some friend that moved there...
and this is the first summer i can take a road trip
so im going for only 2 reasons
to see my buddys and the celica meet
i want to spend time with them cuz i havnt seen them
and i wanna go to the meet and not have to worry about if shes having fun ever second, she doesnt like cars much and i know it and she never has fun...and i cant put all of my attention on her like i can normally, but thats what shes used to and when she doesnt get it she freaks out...i spoiled her! lol

[daazndood]

communication is definetly key. you should tell her (nicely) how u feel and that you love her and dont want her doing this to you etc.

with my gf, everytime we got in arguments we'd just get mad and avoid each other, but now we always tell each other how we feel, why we are mad etc and its alot better. we understand each other a whole lot more now

[tranthecelicaman]

ill try but shes so not understanding..in 5 years shes went liek everwere with me...i take her everywere...shes like glued to my hip...and im so scared shes gunna feel like unwanted cuz im dont want her to go...errrr idk....ok how bout this:

if i bring her:
she will want my attention every second
shes not gunna have fun
shes gunna feel like im ignoring her
im gunna feel liek **** cuz shes upset


If i dotn bring her:
possibly dump me
she will be super pissed for like a week and prolly wont talk to me
ill miss her
she will miss me
ill prolly end up calling her 5 times a day just to see if everythings ok
ill be worried about her 24/7

[daazndood]

ill try but shes so not understanding..in 5 years shes went liek everwere with me...i take her everywere...shes like glued to my hip...and im so scared shes gunna feel like unwanted cuz im dont want her to go...errrr idk....ok how bout this:

if i bring her:
she will want my attention every second
shes not gunna have fun
shes gunna feel like im ignoring her
im gunna feel liek **** cuz shes upset


If i dotn bring her:
possibly dump me
she will be super pissed for like a week and prolly wont talk to me
ill miss her
she will miss me
ill prolly end up calling her 5 times a day just to see if everythings ok
ill be worried about her 24/7

that sucks man. i remember goin to a party with my girl and like i would spend half the time with my buddies and half my time with her and she would still get mad at me. now whenever i ask her she just makes me go by myself.

[Predator]

kinda sounds lika a one way relationship to me, you gives and she takes, maybe she's just insecure, either about herself and doesnt want anything to happen that may ruin your relationship, or maybe she don't trust you, maybe something happened to her in a previous relationship or maybe you did something that made her loose her trust?. however, ask for some slack to let you do what you like and see how it works out, of it doesnt it's either you or her that needs to change if you want to have a succesful relationship

[MaskedMan]

well it might not neccessarily be that she doesn't trust him, but maybe she just doesn't trust other girls. but it sounds like a hard decision man. Hey man, how about a compromise. It takes atleast 3 days to drive up here anyways (im going to be driving from Ohio to Cali later this year) So how about you spend quality time for her during the trip and a little bit while your here (how long are you staying here anyways?) and since the meet is only 1 day, you can ask for this day to do something you want, and give her another day where you guys can do something she wants. Idk, seems like the only way to make both of you happy. atleast a little?

[tranthecelicaman]

oh god three daysin a car with her? do i have to?
lol ill turn a corner and she will be like "wtf you almost hit the stop sign!" and im like omggg i didnt even come close to it!!!! haha or like even worse when i dont come to a total compete stop at a stop sign if i just go down to like 3 mph, she will be like " justin stop!!!"
idk i guess ill take her...then at least if i ever wanna go on a road trip again... she wont wanna come lol
ill make it so boring for her she will hate it hahaha
im so mean.. o well ive gave that gurl everything and spoilered her for the last 5 years ...i want sumthinf or me now!

[MaskedMan]

haha, get used to it now man haha.

[tranthecelicaman]

okok so ill be honest now i was thinkin at first what if she find this site or w/e cuz i swaer if she was sum criminal ro stalker or sumthin shes be good at it, but this website is .net she will never find it lol.... not without a myspace or anything
ok i know im young and all but ive been with her for 5 years and ive been perfectly happy...nothing major has ever went wrong, no lil break ups nothing
im in the proces of looking for a ring YES A RING ...and she will have no clue cuz we talk about getting engaged often and i told her i wanna wate till im at least 21.... she looks os sad every time i say it but i realised i wanna be with this girl.... sooooooooo i dont wanna screw things up , that would totally suck. lol and thats sumthin i would do , screw things up rite b4 we get engaged lol. but yea thats my story!

[MaskedMan]

oh she will find this site and here's how.... (haha, i can trace anything haha)

Ok well you have a myspace, and you recently added me to your myspace. So now i am in your friends list. So there is a link to my myspace from your page. So she could go to my page, and there is a link to this site on my page. And i post a lot on here, so most likely she will find my posts. and from my posts, she will find your posts. Muhaha! i know the trail to everything!

[tranthecelicaman]

she doesnt know i have a myspace, and even if she finds it...its private hahahaha =) i win! CHECKMATE!

This post has been edited by tranthecelicaman: Jul 18, 2006 - 6:40 AM

[JoKeRkId613]

wow. get used to it now? lmao. i feel bad for anyone that has to live their life like that. but hey, it's yours, do as you wish with it. if she'll break up with u for going to a celica meet without her, imagine what other dumb crap she'll break up with you over. and i bet when she wants to do something u wouldnt like her to do, she does it anyway and you either dont do sh!t or try to but she doesn't care and keeps on doing it. goodluck with that.

^be careful, she might break up with u if she finds out u have it on private!^

This post has been edited by JoKeRkId613: Jul 18, 2006 - 6:41 AM

[tranthecelicaman]

eh well she will never find it, i decided my myspace rules:
1. im not adding anyone i personally know...well except 4 people i know for a fact do not know or talk to her,
2. im not adding people untill i dind out who they are and how they got my myspace.
3. my default is of my celica, not of me
4. my default name isnt my ame or snyhting that will give it away

this is the first time shes been liek this but this has been the first time ive tried to leave hor foe a long time...i understand her more now, shes just scared of me leaving her for so long, the most ive ever been away from her in 5 years was like 3 or 4 days