Is this cheating? Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

So i got my phone back from my ex and went thru it and he didnt delete texts messages so i went thru them to find out he was texting with some chick he knew online. She wrote something to the effect of "if you were here id make out with u" and he wrote back "im jealous of the lucky guy"

he doesnt think that is like mentally cheating.

he just lost any chance to get back with me down the line thats for sure. im over even talking to him.

[jdg371]

daym. with your phone too!? sheese..

[BlackCelicaGT94]

yeah and didnt even delete it. not very smart of a guy!

and not too mention about a month ago i found a text to his ex asking if he was the best she had sexually.

he was a dog. i just need to stay strong and not talk to him anymore.

[Bigmeanbulldog55]

That sucks. That's the same thing as cheating in my book. When are you going to get a good guy? You add a lot of drama to the 6gc forums, but I hope things work out for you.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

lol just imagine if i add drama to the boards then what do i bring to a relationship? LOL! D-R-A-M-A

im playing...kinda!

[jdg371]

from when I started going to car forums.. DRAMA is all over the place.. all the time..

[alltracman78]

NO


























Well, ok, maybe

[jdg371]

Fo rlz.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

I think im doing better about all this then I thought I would be. I liked him alot but ya know in the end i dont deserve to be treated like a fool.

[CelicaGT04]

I think..... He WANTED you to read it. lol

Im a guy, and personally, i like to make girls be jealous
and want me... I think he did it on purpose.

But, that is just me...

Hope your luck gets better.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

yeah maybe he did want me to find it. well i did and now hes lost any chance with getting back to me

i dont get him tho. hes all upset that i was out this weekend and that im going to a frat party on Tuesday. its like he just wants me to still like him or something.

[CelicaGT04]

well i think his initial plan was to make you jealous and get ANGRY with him,
BUT still want him at the same time.. Apparently this guy must not have
any sort of PIMP JUICE. (jk) But really, he did that to make you jealous,
its just how we guys are.. frat parties are FUN though.. haha..

[playr158]

roflz

what she don't know don't hurt her
if there isn't touching it doesn't count as cheating
u can't cheat on someone you arn't dating
and just rofl and the make u jealous aspects

[malpaso]

1. cheating? yes... in matter of facts... it is. It's different level... but IMHO it is.
2. stupid? are you sure he really forgot erase that? What if he just want to hurt you cuz you quit? (I mean he may know you will read it...)

This post has been edited by malpaso: Feb 19, 2007 - 1:42 AM

[BlackCelicaGT94]

we were going to break up either way. he was thinking about doing it. its just that i called it off first. i just dont get him cuz i talked to him on the phone this morning and he was all depressed and said he was really bummed about this all. im just afraid hes trying to keep me around so that he can have me if he wants. i dont wanna be that girl. if he genuinely wants to work on being a better man then thats fine. i wont wait for him but if he wanted to give things a try in a month or so and i was still single and was willing to be honest about everything then id do that. but i told him if he does any hooking up with girls then he will have lost his chance 100 percent cuz thatll gross me out.

This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Feb 19, 2007 - 1:49 AM

[Punisher]

I feel sorry for you all.

[CelicaGT04]

we were going to break up either way. he was thinking about doing it. its just that i called it off first. i just dont get him cuz i talked to him on the phone this morning and he was all depressed and said he was really bummed about this all. im just afraid hes trying to keep me around so that he can have me if he wants. i dont wanna be that girl. if he genuinely wants to work on being a better man then thats fine. i wont wait for him but if he wanted to give things a try in a month or so and i was still single and was willing to be honest about everything then id do that. but i told him if he does any hooking up with girls then he will have lost his chance 100 percent cuz thatll gross me out.

AHA.. hes gonna get you right where he wants you..

if he does it once, why wouldnt he do it again? lol

Im not trying to ruin the guys chances, but you drive a celica and i
drive a celica.. We gotta keep the family happy

Give him the curb... MOVE BIT*H

ROFL... I love when girls get like this..

I feel sorry for you all.

How is that?

[malpaso]

Understand BlackCelicaGT94... My point is... I just don't know if all men (mean male men ) all around the word are the same, but here (in my country) is not that unusual man want to feel like "winner" when he loose gf. Feel like he has (and of course always he had) everything under control. That... he is that one who is fine and can handle that easy... and even better that ex is not...

I feel sorry for you all.

How is that?

I don't get it too... He is "punisher"... Should not be sorry...

This post has been edited by malpaso: Feb 19, 2007 - 2:16 AM

[amysmojo]

if you are broken up then its not cheating... it might suck to find but the only thing he did wrong was cost you some texts off your plan... you should ask him for ten cents to cover the cost lol

[BlackCelicaGT94]

oh no they were written a week and a half before we broke up.

ive decided i will probably only find myself getting more hurt if i continue talking to him. so im going to do my best to not. if he talks to me then maybe ill respond but im not going out of my way. im not going to get strung along by being told that he may want to try an 'us' situation again down the line.