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 Mar 5, 2007 - 5:06 PM
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 Enthusiast  Joined Mar 4, '03 From Kirkland, Washington Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%)  |
My friend asked me a question today and thought id ask you guys waht you thought cuz i have my feelings but sometimes mine differ completely from tohers.
What would you guys think if ur boyfriend or girlfriend said "hey imma go move in with my best guy or girl friend"? theyve had a flirty relationship but both sides say nothing has ever happened out of all the years youve known them. Would you be ok with it? I dont think i would be. Drunken nights happen. Im not very trustworthy of people so id be like uhh why cant u move in with the same sex. but then theres a problem when u get some dudes in an apartment cuz then they bring over chicks and party. So anyways she said shes not sure how she feels about it. I told her to just see how it goes for a few months and if you feel that somethings not right hten get the F out. :-) -------------------- Cruisin down the street in my Infiniti...always lookin for my next trip to Sin City
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Mar 5, 2007 - 5:15 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Apr 28, '04 From Houston, Texas Currently Offline Reputation: 2 (100%) |
Fcuk that.
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Mar 5, 2007 - 5:20 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Mar 4, '07 From Massachusetts Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
Hahah we had this dicussion on the audi forums like a month ago.... haha its just turned into war. hahah
But roll with it as for me i wouldnt let it happen. -------------------- Former Burple 97 ST Celica owner
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Mar 5, 2007 - 5:28 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined May 15, '05 From Toronto Currently Offline Reputation: 4 (100%) |
Id b ok with it because my gf's best friend is gay..lol
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Mar 5, 2007 - 5:32 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Mar 4, '03 From Kirkland, Washington Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
lol ok would u be ok with it if her best friend wasnt gay?
and how would u approach him and her to tell them that ur not ok with it. -------------------- Cruisin down the street in my Infiniti...always lookin for my next trip to Sin City
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Mar 5, 2007 - 5:36 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Apr 28, '04 From Houston, Texas Currently Offline Reputation: 2 (100%) |
QUOTE(Valo666 @ Mar 5, 2007 - 10:28 PM) [snapback]533165[/snapback] Id b ok with it because my gf's best friend is gay..lol That means nothing. Don't be fooled by that old game. -------------------- |
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Mar 5, 2007 - 5:43 PM
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Enthusiast Joined May 15, '05 From Toronto Currently Offline Reputation: 4 (100%) |
I would probably be ok with it because they were friends since they were like 2..and as for approaching him..i would just tell him straight up im not cool with it. But also my gfs dad is very very catholic and is against the whole "girls and boys living together" thing. He says that she should wait untill shes married b4 she moves in with a guy *whoops*, lol, but i mean i had to fight for her moving in with me next year and i had to have pretty much a 6 hour long talk with him to convince him that its gonna b ok and hes still not 100% ok with it. So i dunno..it would probably b ok with it mainly cuz i doubt it would happen..lol
QUOTE(Negative @ Mar 5, 2007 - 5:36 PM) [snapback]533171[/snapback] QUOTE(Valo666 @ Mar 5, 2007 - 10:28 PM) [snapback]533165[/snapback] Id b ok with it because my gf's best friend is gay..lol That means nothing. Don't be fooled by that old game. .....ive seen him make out with other guys and the guy wears pink t-shirts that has all of the disney princesses on it lol. trust me..i dont think hes been pretending to be attracted to other men, making out with them, going further than that, just to move in with my girl friend hypatheicaly. |
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Mar 5, 2007 - 8:17 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Jun 25, '06 From Box Elder, South Dakota Currently Offline Reputation: 2 (100%) |
well, since my ex significant other has left me for her "best friend" ever since i got deployed, i think that ummm, HELL NO.....its a stupid move to let your sig. other move in with their opposite sex friend.....anywho, just my 2 cents....
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Mar 5, 2007 - 8:32 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Feb 18, '06 From NB, Canada Currently Offline Reputation: 12 (100%) |
QUOTE(Negative @ Mar 5, 2007 - 6:15 PM) [snapback]533159[/snapback] Fcuk that.
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Mar 5, 2007 - 9:07 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Aug 17, '03 From Bloomington, Indiana Currently Offline Reputation: 62 (98%) |
being as that my best friend is a female.... I have no problem with it... As long as I know the person, and trust them, it's all good with me... Because I would be pissed if I had a girl and she flipped because i was living with a girl
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Mar 5, 2007 - 9:21 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Jul 14, '03 From Jacksonville, FL Currently Offline Reputation: 2 (100%) |
QUOTE(Rayme @ Mar 5, 2007 - 8:32 PM) [snapback]533232[/snapback] QUOTE(Negative @ Mar 5, 2007 - 6:15 PM) [snapback]533159[/snapback] Fcuk that. Nope, no, no no no no.. I'd flip the fk out. -------------------- |
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Mar 5, 2007 - 9:27 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Aug 21, '06 From washington Currently Offline Reputation: 4 (100%) |
QUOTE(3WayStunna @ Mar 5, 2007 - 5:17 PM) [snapback]533227[/snapback] well, since my ex significant other has left me for her "best friend" ever since i got deployed, i think that ummm, HELL NO.....its a stupid move to let your sig. other move in with their opposite sex friend.....anywho, just my 2 cents.... thats suks... i would have to say no cuz i pretty much had sex wit all my friends that are girls so yea. im a bastard i know... what can i say i like to cuddle  ol
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Mar 5, 2007 - 9:41 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Jun 1, '03 From WV Currently Offline Reputation: 2 (100%) |
I'm the jealous type. I don't even like my gf having guy friends. It's something we have an understanding about. She knows that I'm super jealous but that same side of me is protective and aggressive in a good way.
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Mar 5, 2007 - 10:18 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Jun 14, '05 Currently Offline Reputation: 1 (100%) |
no. sh*t WILL happen...
there will always be the "what you don't know....." |
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Mar 5, 2007 - 10:52 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Nov 1, '04 Currently Offline Reputation: 1 (100%) |
I know I wouldnt be too thrilled about it thats for sure...
 The only way I'd be able to sleep at night and not worry about anything is if I knew the person personally and could trust them... But even then, I'd still worry... --------------------  2003 Nissan Murano SE |
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Mar 5, 2007 - 10:53 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Dec 16, '02 From New York Currently Offline Reputation: 4 (100%) |
no way. I'd kill her
 If my man is living with anyone of the opposite sex its going to be me. This works both ways of course. I would never do that to him. This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: Mar 5, 2007 - 10:54 PM -------------------- Buy my Celica $2,500 - http://www.6gc.net/forums/index.php?showtopic=76562&st=0
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Mar 6, 2007 - 1:56 AM
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 Enthusiast Joined Nov 13, '02 From So Cal Currently Offline Reputation: 3 (100%) |
QUOTE(ra65_22re @ Mar 5, 2007 - 8:27 PM) [snapback]533251[/snapback] QUOTE(3WayStunna @ Mar 5, 2007 - 5:17 PM) [snapback]533227[/snapback] well, since my ex significant other has left me for her "best friend" ever since i got deployed, i think that ummm, HELL NO.....its a stupid move to let your sig. other move in with their opposite sex friend.....anywho, just my 2 cents.... thats suks... i would have to say no cuz i pretty much had sex wit all my friends that are girls so yea. im a bastard i know... what can i say i like to cuddle olx2 sorry to say but what else is there to do at home when theres nothing else to do but do a little exploration. it doesnt matter if your significant other is an abstinence preaching monk. everybody pushes that button that says "don't push". its only human nature. --------------------  |
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Mar 6, 2007 - 2:08 AM
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Enthusiast Joined Jan 9, '03 From St. Louis Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
ok... if I was living with my best female friend while going out with my g/f it would feel like this everynight....
internal monologue "Oh man, I really want some booty right now" "maybe I should call my g/f?" "nah, she's busy or something" "well... there is some vag on the other side of this wall....." "oh man, I can't do that!!!" "why not? yes you can it wont be weird or anything, go get some" "well... I guess I have no choice." -------------------- [img]http://photos-081.facebook.com/n6/081/n15913038_30266081_3342.jpg[/img]
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Mar 6, 2007 - 10:06 AM
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 Enthusiast Joined Feb 8, '04 From Thornton, CO. Currently Offline Reputation: 1 (100%) |
Uh for me, if theres not enough trust for your loved one to be around the opposite sex without them doin it, then there probably isnt much of a relationship to begin with... my 2 cents
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Mar 6, 2007 - 11:20 AM
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Enthusiast Joined Mar 4, '03 From Kirkland, Washington Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
The only thing I can relate it to is that Ive known Coomer for 3 years now and id say hes a pretty good friend of mine. Weve never even hugged and so I can pretty much 99.99999 percent gurantee nothing would ever ever ever happen between us. that .00001 percent is incase were the only people alive someday and we had to start a new world or something. lol
so if i was in the situation i could be trusted with my best guy friend. idk. -------------------- Cruisin down the street in my Infiniti...always lookin for my next trip to Sin City
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