Relationship Breaks Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

anyone can force themselves to love someone? theres no way im going to fall in love with a bum on the street! YUCK!

I dont know ive heard of people taking a break and realizing its what needed to be done to save their marriage or relationship but ive also heard cases of where it just didnt work out. In the end I think its a case by case situation and if it works for you at that moment then great. if you realize later that it wasnt right then you think of the moments you shared that were worth staying or working on things and then learn from the mistakes and better urself next time around with someone new.

[hurley97]

its a temporary fix. it'll work great for a year or two after you get back together...

if you truely love someone you won't ever want to be without them

[BlackCelicaGT94]

this is why we havent completely separated. we havent taken a break in the sense of "lets not talk or see eahcother"

we went 2 days without talking and both couldnt stand it so we started talking again and have hung out since the weekend we broke up. we cant seem to pull apart.

[Glitch001]

was it love, or was it the fact youve settled into a relationship and just expect it. Thats what I was hung up on, talked to someone everyday for 4 years, it just was like in my routine. It was changing my routine that was the most difficult thing.

not diminishing your thoughts, just maybe a second viewpoint to see from.

This post has been edited by Glitch001: Mar 27, 2007 - 1:46 PM

[BlackCelicaGT94]

^ thats a good point.

I see where youre coming from. 6 months is probably too early to tell if its REAL LOVE. but its the strongest feelings ive had for someone and someone I can see myself with for a long time.