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[Supersprynt]

LOL what? You do realize that most all girls that guys consider "friends" are simply there because the girl doesn't want anything more.

So what you said is probably true. That he flirts with her and he'd do her. Doesn't mean he is. So theres really no lie there.

To add: Guys know this. Thats why guys are very skeptical of male friends.

This post has been edited by Supersprynt: Jul 13, 2007 - 2:53 PM

[ILuvMyCelica95]

well way too many guys lie. Always chatting with other girls for attention and being flirty. I know girls are guilty of it as well and in my past I have but ive ended a lot of my conversations because I really care for my boyfriend and am done playing those games

Guys lies vs. girls lies are totally different. Guys lie alot about a little, women lie a little about alot.

And you are basing this one what? Your own experience? I don't lie to my boyfriend about anything. Honesty is key in relationships IMO.

a lie is a lie, period. You are either telling the truth or you aren't. It really is that simple... there is no difference in a lie based on who told it. That's asinine to even think that.

edit: i'm sorry this topic got so out of hand Nat.

This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: Jul 13, 2007 - 4:49 PM

[96bluevert]

To add: Guys know this. Thats why guys are very skeptical of male friends.

True! It's not that most guys don't trust thier gf when they are around other guys. It that guys know what others guys are thinking, so we just don't trust the guys our gfs are hanging out with.

Now, to get on topic..
-girls that complain about something and arn't willing to do anything about it.
-girls that drink alot or do drugs
-girls that can't appreciate my interest in cars
-materialistic girls
-already been mentioned, but girls that can't take a joke

[BlackCelicaGT94]

well way too many guys lie. Always chatting with other girls for attention and being flirty. I know girls are guilty of it as well and in my past I have but ive ended a lot of my conversations because I really care for my boyfriend and am done playing those games

Guys lies vs. girls lies are totally different. Guys lie alot about a little, women lie a little about alot.

And you are basing this one what? Your own experience? I don't lie to my boyfriend about anything. Honesty is key in relationships IMO.

a lie is a lie, period. You are either telling the truth or you aren't. It really is that simple... there is no difference in a lie based on who told it. That's asinine to even think that.

edit: i'm sorry this topic got so out of hand Nat.

lol its not out of hand yet Tina. :-P

I dont lie to my boyfriend either. He gets the full truth - i dont hold anything back. Thats what I expect. Dont dance around little things just give me the 110 percent truth of everything.

[Supersprynt]

At the sake of avoiding a topic closure I'll just say that I made that all up for this topic only.

[Jen]

After a few nights ago, I have to add a few..

- Boys that break-up with me via MySpace.
- Bad hair, omg.
- No job/no money/no car.
- Snoring.

I've become an outspoken, major bitch, and I haven't found a guy yet who can handle me.

This post has been edited by Jen: Jul 13, 2007 - 11:25 PM

[devilsden97]

Girls who cant drive. (not saying women/girls cant drive. Some are just poor drivers..just like some men/boys)

like, they follow WAY to close, or are HARDLY doing the speed limit. or are just so "whocares" that u seriously are playing russian roullet everytime u get into a car with them.

[SlowCelica94]

After a few nights ago, I have to add a few..

- Boys that break-up with me via MySpace.
- Bad hair, omg.
- No job/no money/no car.
- Snoring.

I've become an outspoken, major bitch, and I haven't found a guy yet who can handle me.

Well.....I think we can all solve this mystery

[Celica_94]

To add: Guys know this. Thats why guys are very skeptical of male friends.

True! It's not that most guys don't trust thier gf when they are around other guys. It that guys know what others guys are thinking, so we just don't trust the guys our gfs are hanging out with.

Now, to get on topic..
-girls that complain about something and arn't willing to do anything about it.
-girls that drink alot or do drugs
-girls that can't appreciate my interest in cars
-materialistic girls
-already been mentioned, but girls that can't take a joke

Yep!!!! I actually had a girl break up with me because I didn't trust her with them (because of their intentions).
The day after she dumped me, the other dude tried to move in on her. She told him off, and came back to me but I told her to go to hell. Stupid girls and telling guys they don't know the intentions of guys.

[Batman722]

turn offs ?

girls that aren't crazy

giggity giggity

[forkee]

chicks with really bad accents, if i cant understand what your saying or tolerate how you're saying it i just want to punch you. i just cant understand people who have lived here all their life and cannot speak proper english. it just makes them seem dumb, even though that may not be the case.

smoking or drug abuse of any kind

no concept of time aka being late

chicks that have the silent "O"

chicks with kids....

[yarik83]

I have not worked out order of importance but here is goes:
-gals who exagerate about everything and all the time
-gals who have short hair
-gals who do not shave their ... I once went down on a chick and came right back up leaping backwards. she had a "2 inch" perfectly black situation growing.. I had nighmares for weeks.
-gals who dont let you have your personal time. (I like you but i dont want to spend 100 percent of my time with you).. (dont call me at work unless its emergency.. dont talk to me about what your best friend jen heard karen talking about bob's relationship with tina)
-gals who reach in your wallet like its a botomless barrel.
-gals who say "he is my boyfriend" in the squeeky italian sinus/stuffy nose voice
-gals who dont understand your interests in certain things.
-gals who say I duno.. what do you wanna do
=gals who drink and smoke cause they think its cool
-gals who call their mother every day 5 times per hour talking about mine and her;s relationship.
-gals who qualify in one of the following categoris:
-say ohh my gosh and like like like like like
-say im gonna be sick and ewww and Ill never do this its gross
-say that they get queezy on anything from rides to water sports
-gals who CHECK if you are cheating like if they have obsessive compulsive disorder.

-reasons why I had to break up with gals over the years
-bush down unda
-excessive tattoos and piercings
-checking if i cheat
-spending my money like if I was bill gates
-talk crap about my likings to computers/video games/my hobbies
-start bringing you down by being in a relationship just because.
-say "im not ready yet" or "lets wait" 6 months into relationship

best thing I did in last 9 years was become a bachelor again. viva la freedom

things that I do nowadays: (and it might sound egoistic but neccessary)
-split if no sex in under 2 weeks 1 month max
-not spend 20 bucks per day to impress her
-lay out all my cards up front saying who I am and what I do and what my interest and time layout is.
-look at who she is and what she is all about from a perspective of a critic and not horny 24 year old which I am.
-push for testing before she opens her mouth about it
-have girl friends who do some backstage investigating on her previous relationship.
-take everything she says... remember and respont to questions and divide everything she says by a half and then some.

sadly I turned from respect women for who they truly are and what they represent into .. alright lets get to business and get things out of the way before we proceed. I guess that only comes from past bitter relationships.

This post has been edited by yarik83: Jul 15, 2007 - 4:49 AM

[IGloo]

-gals who do not shave their ... I once went down on a chick and came right back up leaping backwards. she had a "2 inch" perfectly black situation growing.. I had nighmares for weeks.

OMFG!!!

At least the garden dwarves didn´t attack you for tresspassing!

DAMN!!!

I´m laughing my ass off!!!



This post has been edited by IGloo: Jul 16, 2007 - 12:21 AM

[ILuvMyCelica95]

I have not worked out order of importance but here is goes:
-gals who exagerate about everything and all the time
-gals who have short hair
-gals who do not shave their ... I once went down on a chick and came right back up leaping backwards. she had a "2 inch" perfectly black situation growing.. I had nighmares for weeks.
-gals who dont let you have your personal time. (I like you but i dont want to spend 100 percent of my time with you).. (dont call me at work unless its emergency.. dont talk to me about what your best friend jen heard karen talking about bob's relationship with tina)
-gals who reach in your wallet like its a botomless barrel.
-gals who say "he is my boyfriend" in the squeeky italian sinus/stuffy nose voice
-gals who dont understand your interests in certain things.
-gals who say I duno.. what do you wanna do
=gals who drink and smoke cause they think its cool
-gals who call their mother every day 5 times per hour talking about mine and her;s relationship.
-gals who qualify in one of the following categoris:
-say ohh my gosh and like like like like like
-say im gonna be sick and ewww and Ill never do this its gross
-say that they get queezy on anything from rides to water sports
-gals who CHECK if you are cheating like if they have obsessive compulsive disorder.

-reasons why I had to break up with gals over the years
-bush down unda
-excessive tattoos and piercings
-checking if i cheat
-spending my money like if I was bill gates
-talk crap about my likings to computers/video games/my hobbies
-start bringing you down by being in a relationship just because.
-say "im not ready yet" or "lets wait" 6 months into relationship

best thing I did in last 9 years was become a bachelor again. viva la freedom

things that I do nowadays: (and it might sound egoistic but neccessary)
-split if no sex in under 2 weeks 1 month max
-not spend 20 bucks per day to impress her
-lay out all my cards up front saying who I am and what I do and what my interest and time layout is.
-look at who she is and what she is all about from a perspective of a critic and not horny 24 year old which I am.
-push for testing before she opens her mouth about it
-have girl friends who do some backstage investigating on her previous relationship.
-take everything she says... remember and respont to questions and divide everything she says by a half and then some.

sadly I turned from respect women for who they truly are and what they represent into .. alright lets get to business and get things out of the way before we proceed. I guess that only comes from past bitter relationships.

and you sound like a total jackass.

basically you should just go find a prostitute because what you are looking for is not a girlfriend and i would also advise maturing before you even think of having a relationship.

[Supersprynt]

He's a jackass because he's picky and has opinions on things? Makes no sense to me.

I guess the requirements of being a girlfriend involve all of which he has itemized? Doubtful.

I agree with most all of what he said. You can still respect women and say get the BS out of the way.

This post has been edited by Supersprynt: Jul 16, 2007 - 11:00 AM

[ILuvMyCelica95]

no i think he's a jackass because of his last statement

sadly I turned from respect women for who they truly are and what they represent into .. alright lets get to business and get things out of the way before we proceed. I guess that only comes from past bitter relationships.

maybe i'm reading this wrong?

the rest of his itemized list are his own preferences i didn't say anything about that.

other than push for testing... wtf is that if you are dating skanky girls who have stds you should rethink what you're really looking for in a relationship.

to me it sounds like all he wants is sex with no strings attached which is why i said a prostitute is a better way to go for him.

i also don't think you should let past relationship have anything to do with a new/current one.

that's where i think a lot of people go wrong. Just because your last girlfriend or boyfriend was a lying cheating son of a bitch doesn't mean every other person you date thereafter will be of the same character.

I really don't think you can categorize everyone into one group. Girls are this and Guys are that. No two people are exactly the same.
Perhaps it's the type of guy/girl or your standards that attribute to poor relationships.


this is all my own opinion. i just think it's a little rude that's all.

This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: Jul 16, 2007 - 11:47 AM

[Supersprynt]

to me it sounds like all he wants is sex with no strings attached which is why i said a prostitute is a better way to go for him.

i also don't think you should let past relationship have anything to do with a new/current one.

that's where i think a lot of people go wrong. Just because your last girlfriend or boyfriend was a lying cheating son of a bitch doesn't mean every other person you date thereafter will be of the same character.

I really don't think you can categorize everyone into one group. Girls are this and Guys are that. No two people are exactly the same.
Perhaps it's the type of guy/girl or your standards that attribute to poor relationships.

this is all my own opinion. i just think it's a little rude that's all.

It's impossible not to let past relationships shape your current or future ones. The reason most early ones fail and later ones succeed is the lessons learned. So forgetting everything you've learned from the past and being naive all over again is ignorant. Should you assume this person is like the last? No, but the lesson learned is that everyones capable of that. Everyones human, and the Id is often stronger than the Ego.

Rude is burping at the dinner table, or cutting someone off in the middle of conversation or being cursing in public, not holding the door open for someone. Here in a forum, stating your opinions in a form that asks for them, isn't rude. If your being offended then your taking it to personally. He's not talking about you, he's talking about all the girls he has known.

This post has been edited by Supersprynt: Jul 16, 2007 - 12:35 PM

[ILuvMyCelica95]

Erik- i didn't ask you to define the word rude to me. I am aware of what it means and in MY OPINION what he said is rude. Rude does not have to be an ACTION.

I understand learning from past relationship I never said we should forget they happened and get hurt again.

What I was saying relates to the statement i made bold. He said he acts this way or feels this way as a result of bitter past relationships. I PERSONALLY think that people should not let past relationship affect current ones so much that they change how you perceive the opposite sex. Sorry if i didn't make that clear in my last post.

This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: Jul 16, 2007 - 12:48 PM

[Supersprynt]

Everything is an action. The act of typing something on the internet for the express purpose if inadvertently insulting strangers.

If 100 men hurt you and your dating 101 don't you think in the back of your mind your thinking, this dude's gonna hurt me? It's inevitable.

To add to turn offs: Unappealing car. If a girl is driving a Chevy Corsica, sorry I g2g.
Oh and bratty girls. I hate girls that expect you to pay for everything and think they're a gift from the gods. Get over yourself.

This post has been edited by Supersprynt: Jul 16, 2007 - 2:19 PM

[ILuvMyCelica95]

you are impossible to even talk to because you have to twist everything i say to get the last word in.

You know exactly what I was saying previously and I don't think i can make my opinion any more clear then i already have.

If 100 men hurt me and I'm on to 101 then i obviously did not learn my lesson from my past 100 relationships so you basically negated what you said previously.

Maybe I don't understand you logic because of my own experiences. I have been cheated on. I was used and treated very unfairly in a past relationship. I learned from it. I did not bring my "baggage" and feeling toward my ex to my current relationship.
my ex was a cheating lying bastard. my boyfriend now isn't and i trust him. I did not enter my relationship now saying oh man remember the last guy this guy must cheat and lie to i better be careful.

I personally don't think that's any way to live ones life.

you are so antagonistic



This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: Jul 16, 2007 - 2:20 PM