Question to all guys here at 6gc, about girls................... Options

[joehernandez]

I know most of the 6gc members are men,
well, i wanted to ask you,
there is this girl i like, and she likes me too, but for some reasons we can't still be together..
the question is,
would you guys let her dance freak with your friends?
even if you are not boyfriend to her?
what about the ones that are in a relationship, would you let her?

i am asking cuz it really sucked for me, and i really want to tell her about that it make me really mad
going to the club and seen her dancing with me and two of my friend freak,.......
need opinions!!

[parriehunter]

my only advice;

can't live with the can't live without them

nah, why can't you be with her? are you to drop nuts to say something?
Just tell her but obversely don't yell or anything like that.

After being in a relationship for well over 4 years they do like to know how you feel. (honestly thats whats we fight about cos i dont tell her crap).

whats this "freak" is it like dirty dancing? she might be trying to get a reaction out of you to test how much you do like her.

[joehernandez]

i dont understand,,,
u want me to tell her the way i felt, but not the way i want to say it?

she know i like her, and she likes me,, sorry that i didnt point it that out clearly..
o yeah and it was dirty dancing..

This post has been edited by joehernandez: Aug 18, 2008 - 4:41 AM

[808celica]

she's trying to make you jealous. all girls do that to make you want them more

[joehernandez]

she's trying to make you jealous. all girls do that to make you want them more

ok but what would you do about it?

[parriehunter]

Oh ok...sounds like she is playing with ya. They do that....im sure not all girls do but yea a lot do.

Actually honestly I wouldn't have a clue what to do.
It sounds like its very complicated. My best guess would be to tell her.

[joehernandez]

Oh ok...sounds like she is playing with ya. They do that....im sure not all girls do but yea a lot do.

Actually honestly I wouldn't have a clue what to do.
It sounds like its very complicated. My best guess would be to tell her.

i really dont think she is like that,
it would be really f***ed up,,,,,,,,,
i guess thats the best thing to do

[playr158]

lol

a) you arn't dating so you can't tell her what to do so deal with it
b) even if you were dating, good luck trying to tell her what to do
c) I let my last GF dance with my friends its not a big deal.

[D-Man]

Dude, If you want my advice, I'll tell you what not to do. (because as for what to do, I have yet to figure it out)

if you catch her in a hot-tub with one of your best friends, DO NOT jump the fence and try to drown him. She'll end up taking his side and get inbetween you and him ready to box with you
DO NOT be an over obsessive psychopathic stalker. It never leads to anything good.
DO NOT go out with your own friends and get drunk when she says never wants to see you again, as she will drive around all night looking for you and run up on your a- at the concert and start a fist fight.
DO NOT do anything
DO NOT do nothing
DO NOT become perfect and do whatever she wants
DO NOT become an ass and do everthing she dosn't want.
when she tells you to go get a new chick and maybe she'd be jealous, DO NOT assume that dating a lesbian (who has the same motives as you, but with her girlfriend) is going to work. Even though it's the only way to avoid future problems by NOT having slept with the person, as it's impossible. It dont work for some reason

I believe there is some whay to do that whole "win her back" thing, But I just dont know how to do it. W/E; in the end, all i know is that their are more chicks out there that are almost as good....Almost

...Damn, i'm sad now...

whats this "freak" is it like dirty dancing? she might be trying to get a reaction out of you to test how much you do like her.

It's that freaking, "rub your butt and boobs all over my happy place" kind of dancing. People are (supposedly) known "Accomplish their goals" right there on the dance floor from time to time. (unfortunately i wouldn't know as i don't know how to grind like that, nor do i dance much at all anymore ) Raver not a Rapper

This post has been edited by D-Man: Aug 18, 2008 - 8:28 AM

[DEATH]

lol

a) you arn't dating so you can't tell her what to do so deal with it
b) even if you were dating, good luck trying to tell her what to do
c) I let my last GF dance with my friends its not a big deal.

x2

Oh ok...sounds like she is playing with ya. They do that....im sure not all girls do but yea a lot do.
Actually honestly I wouldn't have a clue what to do.
It sounds like its very complicated. My best guess would be to tell her.

i really dont think she is like that,
it would be really f***ed up,,,,,,,,,
i guess thats the best thing to do

Either "A" - yes she is like that [And never put anything past a woman - this is pretty mild compared to some things I've seen women do to make a man jealous or like them more - they are ALL pretty fcuked up you know] or "B" she has no interest in you. Not a problem either way - just try to figure out which and deal appropriately

Dude, If you want my advice, I'll tell you what not to do. (because as for what to do, I have yet to figure it out)
if you catch her in a hot-tub with one of your best friends, DO NOT jump the fence and try to drown him. She'll end up taking his side and get inbetween you and him ready to box with you
DO NOT be an over obsessive psychopathic stalker. It never leads to anything good.
DO NOT go out with your own friends and get drunk when she says never wants to see you again, as she will drive around all night looking for you and run up on your a- at the concert and start a fist fight.
DO NOT do anything
DO NOT do nothing
DO NOT become perfect and do whatever she wants
DO NOT become an ass and do everthing she dosn't want.
when she tells you to go get a new chick and maybe she'd be jealous, DO NOT assume that dating a lesbian (who has the same motives as you, but with her girlfriend) is going to work. Even though it's the only way to avoid future problems by NOT having slept with the person, as it's impossible. It dont work for some reason
I believe there is some whay to do that whole "win her back" thing, But I just dont know how to do it. W/E; in the end, all i know is that their are more chicks out there that are almost as good....Almost
...Damn, i'm sad now...

whats this "freak" is it like dirty dancing? she might be trying to get a reaction out of you to test how much you do like her.

It's that freaking, "rub your butt and boobs all over my happy place" kind of dancing. People are (supposedly) known "Accomplish their goals" right there on the dance floor from time to time. (unfortunately i wouldn't know as i don't know how to grind like that, nor do i dance much at all anymore ) Raver not a Rapper

This post will haunt me for the rest of my life.


My advice - You are already too hung up on this girl to have a successful relationship [Unless you prefer being submissive and then I can see it working - maybe] and you are not even dating yet. Get the hell away. It's never healthy to be that hung up on a chick. Go out and find one who is that hung up YOU, let her massage your wounded ego and get your needs taken care of - you'll soon forget all about this other one.

This post has been edited by DEATH: Aug 18, 2008 - 9:00 AM

[D-Man]

^ yeah that's what i did. Made me feel alot better. Then when i felt better, i was fine to go and "browse the candy isle" untill i found something worth keeping

[playr158]

haha D-man your first post made me lol

[CAMAricer]

That's messed up man, she knows you're into her and she still wants to freak with your bros in front of your face? Hmm, does your boys know about your situation? Maybe they'd respect that and leave her off limits.

Bros before hoes, right? (my apologies to any ladies out there who maybe offended by this expression).

I know most of the 6gc members are men,
well, i wanted to ask you,
there is this girl i like, and she likes me too, but for some reasons we can't still be together..
the question is,
would you guys let her dance freak with your friends?
even if you are not boyfriend to her?
what about the ones that are in a relationship, would you let her?

i am asking cuz it really sucked for me, and i really want to tell her about that it make me really mad
going to the club and seen her dancing with me and two of my friend freak,.......
need opinions!!

[D-Man]

That's messed up man, she knows you're into her and she still wants to freak with your bros in front of your face? Hmm, does your boys know about your situation? Maybe they'd respect that and leave her off limits.

Bros before hoes, right? (my apologies to any ladies out there who maybe offended by this expression).

The sad thing is, NOT REALLY. I've had my family turn on my a- durring hard times like this; Hopefuly your people are better than mine.

But what can i say, I love me some crazy / psychotic women. Apparently my bad taste is in friends. and if your boys are going to go along with it in your face at the clubs, than they'll do MUCH more when you arn't looking. I'm sorry to say. Not trying to hurt your feelings or anything, Or piss you off, But (in MY personal experience, People really are that dirty )

I wish ya the best. G/L

[joehernandez]

lol

a) you arn't dating so you can't tell her what to do so deal with it
b) even if you were dating, good luck trying to tell her what to do
c) I let my last GF dance with my friends its not a big deal.

yeah,, thats the big deal!
i think she sill be mad and will tell me the same thing!
"we are not dating"......................................

Dude, If you want my advice, I'll tell you what not to do. (because as for what to do, I have yet to figure it out)

if you catch her in a hot-tub with one of your best friends, DO NOT jump the fence and try to drown him. She'll end up taking his side and get inbetween you and him ready to box with you
DO NOT be an over obsessive psychopathic stalker. It never leads to anything good.
DO NOT go out with your own friends and get drunk when she says never wants to see you again, as she will drive around all night looking for you and run up on your a- at the concert and start a fist fight.
DO NOT do anything
DO NOT do nothing
DO NOT become perfect and do whatever she wants
DO NOT become an ass and do everthing she dosn't want.
when she tells you to go get a new chick and maybe she'd be jealous, DO NOT assume that dating a lesbian (who has the same motives as you, but with her girlfriend) is going to work. Even though it's the only way to avoid future problems by NOT having slept with the person, as it's impossible. It dont work for some reason

I believe there is some whay to do that whole "win her back" thing, But I just dont know how to do it. W/E; in the end, all i know is that their are more chicks out there that are almost as good....Almost

...Damn, i'm sad now...

whats this "freak" is it like dirty dancing? she might be trying to get a reaction out of you to test how much you do like her.

It's that freaking, "rub your butt and boobs all over my happy place" kind of dancing. People are (supposedly) known "Accomplish their goals" right there on the dance floor from time to time. (unfortunately i wouldn't know as i don't know how to grind like that, nor do i dance much at all anymore ) Raver not a Rapper

wooow you really got me thinking right here!

lol

a) you arn't dating so you can't tell her what to do so deal with it
b) even if you were dating, good luck trying to tell her what to do
c) I let my last GF dance with my friends its not a big deal.

x2

Oh ok...sounds like she is playing with ya. They do that....im sure not all girls do but yea a lot do.
Actually honestly I wouldn't have a clue what to do.
It sounds like its very complicated. My best guess would be to tell her.

i really dont think she is like that,
it would be really f***ed up,,,,,,,,,
i guess thats the best thing to do

Either "A" - yes she is like that [And never put anything past a woman - this is pretty mild compared to some things I've seen women do to make a man jealous or like them more - they are ALL pretty fcuked up you know] or "B" she has no interest in you. Not a problem either way - just try to figure out which and deal appropriately

Dude, If you want my advice, I'll tell you what not to do. (because as for what to do, I have yet to figure it out)
if you catch her in a hot-tub with one of your best friends, DO NOT jump the fence and try to drown him. She'll end up taking his side and get inbetween you and him ready to box with you
DO NOT be an over obsessive psychopathic stalker. It never leads to anything good.
DO NOT go out with your own friends and get drunk when she says never wants to see you again, as she will drive around all night looking for you and run up on your a- at the concert and start a fist fight.
DO NOT do anything
DO NOT do nothing
DO NOT become perfect and do whatever she wants
DO NOT become an ass and do everthing she dosn't want.
when she tells you to go get a new chick and maybe she'd be jealous, DO NOT assume that dating a lesbian (who has the same motives as you, but with her girlfriend) is going to work. Even though it's the only way to avoid future problems by NOT having slept with the person, as it's impossible. It dont work for some reason
I believe there is some whay to do that whole "win her back" thing, But I just dont know how to do it. W/E; in the end, all i know is that their are more chicks out there that are almost as good....Almost
...Damn, i'm sad now...

whats this "freak" is it like dirty dancing? she might be trying to get a reaction out of you to test how much you do like her.

It's that freaking, "rub your butt and boobs all over my happy place" kind of dancing. People are (supposedly) known "Accomplish their goals" right there on the dance floor from time to time. (unfortunately i wouldn't know as i don't know how to grind like that, nor do i dance much at all anymore ) Raver not a Rapper

This post will haunt me for the rest of my life.


My advice - You are already too hung up on this girl to have a successful relationship [Unless you prefer being submissive and then I can see it working - maybe] and you are not even dating yet. Get the hell away. It's never healthy to be that hung up on a chick. Go out and find one who is that hung up YOU, let her massage your wounded ego and get your needs taken care of - you'll soon forget all about this other one.

Ok heres the thing,,,,,
she is my boss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
she is the assistant manager and i am the third key!
i think that changed the story a little bit hehehehehe

[DEATH]

OK well then you really don't have any reason trying to date her. Relationships with coworkers are bad news man - move on. Girls are never worth this much worry. They are easy to find and easy to leave behind man.
you seem like too nice a guy to worry about any one female.

[lubu]

she is my boss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
she is the assistant manager and i am the third key!

Ownage right there bud.

[D-Man]

No Matt, that is his problem, he's not a total testosterone driven ass like some guys i know

J/K w/ ya

But for real, that'll be the hardest part; but ultimately the wisest decision. And i have to agree with not having relations with co-workers. Seriously, even working in a quizno's, there are security cameras, and a pervert for a boss who makes copys of the tape to show his other store at the christmas party when you're supposed to be dating a chick there, but then the.... nevermind...


EDIT: Matt, that's the quizno's by your house next to the walmart shoping center. Chris Johnson is the owner, and I was the assistant of that one and the one on 34th near that CONS and GoodWill. There was a Danielle Ramey at one store, then a Kristina Lang at another. I hope you like your mayo

This post has been edited by D-Man: Aug 18, 2008 - 11:50 AM

[DEATH]

I don't eat mayo - don't trust it plus it's got to be the nastiest food substance on the planet [Well maybe].

No but I'm serious here - no girl is worth him being so upset. I've been fcuked with by the best in the business and not one of those females was worth the problems. Just keep looking till you find someone who likes you outright - not one you have to get to like you. And even then keep you're eye out and your heart hardened. They can't hurt you with what you were already prepared for.

[hitcachi]

who cares about girl friends!!!