hopefully single for not much longer!!!, no more link Options

[celica9110]

Jet-"Are You Gonna Be My Girl"

that's all you need

nice!
well she put up our song we were listening to when we first kissed on her myspace and she put our lil "shoe picture" in her general section hmmmmm

[playr158]

bwahah i'm not going to get burned......Him chickening out is also an outcome

[D-Man]

I'm gunna Falcon Punch the next person who says's he's doomed to BFF land

Man, Just be yourself and she'll accept. No problem. Ya'll are best friends right? Well then duh... it'll work. Just do it. Get it over with so you can be happy.

[stetsonaw]

wait, you failed to mention that you guys kissed before. and her adding that song to her page? signs man... signs. find the pilot of "How I Met Your Mother", there's something to be learned from that episode about signs.

[celica9110]

that was back over the summer

d-man whats a falcon punch? sounds badass <-also pm me

bwahah i'm not going to get burned......Him chickening out is also an outcome

oh and i didnt chicken out, it didnt feel like the right time

[D-Man]

It's a super-powered punch. Click on FALCON PUNCH on my previous post. There is a pic of a kid getting falcon punched

I'ss send you some pm promptly.

[Jeunesse]

don't wait too long or else you'll lose it. If you want it, go and get it.

[celica9110]

don't wait too long or else you'll lose it. If you want it, go and get it.

those are some great words to live by

[Jeunesse]

Those are also the secrets for success.

[celica9110]

i asked her and she said no WTF!?
this was her excuse...its not like that for me

[95CelicaST]

somebody owes me money...

[richee3]

What?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

That sucks!!! I just read through this whole thread. It sounds like she's really into you. And you two have even kissed? She still said no.... Dang, I'm sorry to hear that, man. But hey, my best friend in the whole world is a girl. We used to like each other a LOT, but it's a long story that nobody wants to hear. But now we are happy to just be best friends. We no longer see each other as someone we could ever date. We are just two friends, nothing more, nothing less. I mean, we are really really close friends, and it's to the point where our friendship actually bothers other people. We never get invited to the same places anymore. And we have the same friends. One of us will get invited, but not the other. But that's another story and I'm not gonna threadjack. My point is, maybe there's a silver lining to this. Reiana and I used to be crazy for each other, but now we are best friends, no matter what. It sounds like your story is almost exactly the same as mine. It sounds like you two will have each other for a long time, even if it's not how you think it will be.

[supershannon77]

I'm sorry

listen to me girls can be weird...she might come around she prob just doesn't know what she wants.
she will prob say she doesn't wanna ruin a good thing and blah blah.

It is new years eve your perfect moment would have and should have been at midnight tonight...if your together and things are going good I would go for the midnight kiss..the worst thing she will do is pull away and you go from there.

If it works out and she kisses you back spit out some line like "I couldn't ask for a better way to start my new year." Idk things like that make us girls get all giggly and happy....like I said we women are weird.

[Culpable04]

i asked her and she said no WTF!?
this was her excuse...its not like that for me

Give it one more try and really show your interest, if that doesn't work tell her you'll be friends and forget all about it, but you have to follow your own rule, you don't wanna become the creepy friend who's checking everything out / jealous type of friend.

one more thing, young girls don't look for nice guys, most women think nice guys are to married. so the question is Are you a nice guy ?

I wasn't and something change and guess what ? I'm married lol so I guess is all true.

[D-Man]

i asked her and she said no WTF!?
this was her excuse...its not like that for me

nooo!! now i owe playr money

Damn you. Playr, send pm regarding payment
(you'd better get in there and win the chick over before i send anything )

I'm sorry

listen to me girls can be weird...she might come around she prob just doesn't know what she wants.
she will prob say she doesn't wanna ruin a good thing and blah blah.

It is new years eve your perfect moment would have and should have been at midnight tonight...if your together and things are going good I would go for the midnight kiss..the worst thing she will do is pull away and you go from there.

If it works out and she kisses you back spit out some line like "I couldn't ask for a better way to start my new year." Idk things like that make us girls get all giggly and happy....like I said we women are weird.

YES!! do that!!

Damn shannon, you're smoother than me impressive...

[lagos]

i asked her and she said no WTF!?
this was her excuse...its not like that for me

Told ya dude. Your in the friend zone. No getting out.
Only way to here heart now is through a falcon punch.

[lagos]

listen to me girls can be weird...she might come around she prob just doesn't know what she wants.

Shannon, one thing I learned over the years is that girls know exactly what they want, they just dont know how to say it.
Most of the time they just want attention (not a bad thing). Thats why she is leading him on. But if a girl is really thinking about a guy in a romantic way, she will never show all of her cards to him. The red flag here is with the girl telling him how much she loves him and how he's the greatest guy in the world. Thats probably the last thing in the world a girl would say to a guy she is interested in. Girls have a need to play the game, and not show everything up front. If everything is out in the open they just loose interest.

[99Celica]

its not calculus, its dating. Everyone's different.

If you like her that much keep trying. Being friends w/ someone that you wanna be with who doesn't feel the same way can only result in bad things. Good luck bro,

x2 on the midnight kiss thing.

[Culpable04]

listen to me girls can be weird...she might come around she prob just doesn't know what she wants.

Shannon, one thing I learned over the years is that girls know exactly what they want, they just dont know how to say it.
Most of the time they just want attention (not a bad thing). Thats why she is leading him on. But if a girl is really thinking about a guy in a romantic way, she will never show all of her cards to him. The red flag here is with the girl telling him how much she loves him and how he's the greatest guy in the world. Thats probably the last thing in the world a girl would say to a guy she is interested in. Girls have a need to play the game, and not show everything up front. If everything is out in the open they just loose interest.

exactly, it gets to easy, they need that guy who her parents will say no, or the guy who has already shown interest on someone else. some competition or challenge. we can't blame them, we are the same way, if a girl comes to us really easy, we use it and move on the the next easy girl and keep doing it and we enjoy it, don't we ?

[supershannon77]

Well..I guess for a lot of girls they play games..I dont think I'm the type of girl that play games.

The thing is with Jim it was like this for a little while...I liked him but I was young and scared and I didn't kno if I really wanted to ruin what we had and that was a good friendship...sometimes at least for me when I like something so much I back off and try not to mess with it..with Jim I liked him so much and I was so scared that he really didnt like me or that he would date me but just break up with me after a few months and break my heart.

Jim and I got really close b4 we started to date the man reason was b/c my dad wouldn't allow me to date him. For a point in time when I could date him I was scared to lose one of the greatest things i ever had...then I was like i wanna risk it all bc if being his friend is this great imagine dating him..and now i just wanna beat him up sometimes lol.

Anyway yea I was really confused then...I had no idea what i really wanted but I was 14..I was just this little girl with a huge crush. I kinda was getting a little bit of that out of this...I think he said he was 18 so they are still young. Even tho I am still young as well.

I kinda feel the whole playing the game thing starts after a little more experience and to me it seemed like this girl might really like him but might be scared to take the next step. Its kinda like its gonna be all or nothing and to me it seems like she likes him to much to risk it and end up with nothing.

I really don't know though since I don't know the whole situation..I was just comparing it to what I went thru and how I felt at one time.

but like I said women are weird they never really just put it out there...they play games or hold back from getting hurt...when a guy is more like hey i like you lets go out..to a girl its much then that...at least i think.